todo sobre el cancer de mama

hey! hello! can you hear me? yes? good afternoon! now, i came for enlightenmentbut it seems i’m already enlightened. good afternoon all,thanks a lot. lots of faces; i don't knowif everyone is here who should be, but anyway... now,

today’s talk is one i’ve been mulling over for a while and maybe, for many of you,this thing about conscious beliefs, there i go again with those beliefs, is just more of the same. it’s not more of the same. it is the sameon another conscious level. if there's one thingi've aspired to for many years, since i was a young man,it’s freedom.

the fact is, i didn't really knowwhat freedom meant. what's more, if i were to aska lot of people what freedom is, i’m sure i'd geta lot of different answers. but i’m not talking about freedomin general, i’m talking about emotional freedom. that's where i really liketo get stuck in, studying and observing to what extent human beingsare emotionally free. and the fact is, after many years,

i can conclude that humans have no ideawhat emotional freedom is. so let's tryand shed some light on this today. that's the aim of this talk. there’s another thinga lot of you already know: if you want something,you have to give it. the way we get thingsis by giving them. to what level of consciousness are we – and forgive the repetition– conscious

that how we see the world is not conditionedby our beliefs? everybody knows this: beliefs, etc. but to what extent am i truly conscious of the factthat i don't really see the world as it really is because my beliefs prevent mefrom seeing the world as it is? in other words,

to what point if i really want to seethe truth of a situation ...? i’ll say it again: if i really want to seethe truth of a situation, do my beliefs stop me from doing so? this brings usto something very important, crucial, and if what i’m about to sayin a moment really reachesthe deepest level of your unconscious you’ll get up and leave

because you’ll see it. if i really want to seethe truth of a situation... it would be good if peoplecould turn their mobiles off. if i really...this is the drum roll before i say it. excellent, preamble accepted. great! who...? there is nobody who has not been in a problematic situation of some sort.

a conflictive situation of some sort. i’m not talking about huge conflicts, just normal conflicts, everyday ones, family ones, when someone tells youabout their dad, mum, uncle, granddad, someone in their block,the upstairs neighbour... nothing major. and how quick we are to judge. how quick we are to label...

let’s start gaining awareness of this. we're going to do a little exercise,everyone think of a little story. it doesn't have to be dramatic. it can be the last argumentyou had with a friend, your partner, your brother. whatever, one you had earlier. so how did it affect you emotionally? still with me?do you get the picture?

how we have changed? how we have reacted quickly? then we’ll say thingslike it doesn't matter, i'm going to take a sedative,some drops of bach, whatever. yes? but then we’ll get the feeling that we could have kept quiet. we could have turned the other cheek. this rings a bell doesn't it?

and the more masochistic ones, they drag it out, don't they? "whatever will they think? i wanted to conveythat image and now...” and then, if they are a bit obsessive,they can’t sleep. and if they are a bit more obsessive, they end up taking a sedative,anxiety pill or whatever they need. they can't deal with a thing that is only as importantas they are making it out to be.

are you with me? who has not asked themselves “why did this happen?, why did i react like that?, what was i thinking?"? and not only that, a situation like this,at a given moment, let's say one a bit more importantin our daily lives, can bring about consequences

much greater than the act itself. i think i’m starting to scare you alla bit, well, who hasn't experienced this? we all have! who hasn't been sitting quietlysomewhere and had a reactionthat they can't explain because of something they saw, something they heard, or simplysomething going on nearby?

note that i'm not talking aboutanything dramatic or far out. and we ask ourselves again: "why is this happening?, why do i get upset by these things?, why can’t i stand this?, why am i so uncompromisingabout these things?” and there begins the rhetoric known as self-approvalor self-justification that what i'm doing is true

because of this, that and the other. how many of us have really asked, really asked, “would i like to see the truthof this situation?"? and then, of course,our famous ego appears, the one who always thinksit’s right, the one who thinksthat you have reasons for doing what you're doing. and we settle for any explanation.

and that's as far as we go. very few people dig a little deeper. we just stop here and, as i explained a moment ago, this conditions my life, and these same situations, emotions, thoughts and feelings that have created this situationare putting conditions on me in the medium, short or long term

and i don't quite understandwhy they appear. if i really want to see the truthof a situation, the real truth,i have to stop believing. because my beliefs not only determine what i see; i also think– and this is the big mistake – that my beliefs are true. and as i think and believethat my beliefs are true, anyone who thinks differently to me,

anyone who believes different thingsto what i believe, automatically becomes my enemy, or i have to defend my beliefsfrom the other. not only does thisnot give me freedom, but it fetters me emotionallyto a truth that is not true,but which i convert into truth and i decide to see the worldin this light. so what happens then? my relationships,

not only with myself,which is the main relationship, but my relationships with others, are highly conditioned by how i see and understand life. we need to change this and say that they are determinedby my beliefs. it’s not about stopping believing, because beliefs can be useful. it’s about knowing that my beliefsaren't true.

so, if my beliefs aren’t true, i can use them, but i can never use my beliefsto attack anybody. ok? are you with me? good, we’re on the same level. there’s another very important aspect. because i think my beliefs are true, i project them on to the worldin front of me

and they give mean interpretation of what i'm seeing. and we cannot understand that the same personseeing the same situation simply sees it another way. and not just another way, in a radically different way to me. and we know thatwhat happened, happened. this really conditionsour relationships to the point that it automaticallybrings pain and suffering.

and our emotional freedomis very seriously conditioned, if not entirely conditioned. therefore,the first step to take here today is to reach the awareness that,i don’t see the world as it is, i see the world as i think it is. this is why our teacherjesus christ said that we cannot enterthe kingdom of heaven unless we are like children. some people don't understandthis interpretation.

in theory, we assume that a child has no beliefs. in any event, we inculcate them. "don't do that, don't say that..." or as joan manuel serrat used to say,"stop messing with the ball". in other words, our beloved parents are conditioning us to live in a world directly related with the beliefs inculcated in ussince we were born.

i call this hypnosis. we’re being hypnotized here. ok? then there’s... when i lay downmy beliefs on someone. and then,i believe what this person says because they said so, which is pretty pathetic. i often say in my talks:

“don't believe me,try it for yourselves." you don't have to believe anything;try it. that's why my talksare self-application talks. that's why many peoplewho watch my vid-e-os, as they say in south america,or vid-i-os as we say here, say "i’ve been healed"or "they've changed my life". i always say to them:"you heal yourself and you change it. because you've realizedthat you are conditioned. you still see the same people,

you may not like them as much, but they’re not affectingyou emotionally now, because you realizethat how you see this person... you don't see themas they really are but how you are reallyinterpreting them because of the beliefs you have.” i could give thousands of examples. one i could give right now: homosexuality.

interesting topic, isn't it? i’ve met thousands of peoplein my life, i’m giving a course and they start saying: "hey, this is my partner" or “this is my wife”. but the person who says"this is my wife", is a woman. are you with me?a woman says to me: "i want to introduce you to my wifebecause she couldn’t do the course

and she's a fan of yours andif i don't bring her she’ll get mad." and i say fine, bring your wife. but the wonderful thing about this is thatwhen i come across these things, which are a reflection of my life, i automatically think: "you're doing good enric because people comeand open their hearts to you." i’d never seen so many peopleon a course say

they were homosexual. which leads to me thinkthey all were before. but now they tell me they are, and they do so freely because they feel that the person in front of themis going to accept them. they don't consider anything else. and that's the second partof the talk. the second part of the talk is:

if i really want to beemotionally free, i must understand that my emotions, my way of seeingand understanding life goes before me. so, if i think thingshave to be square anything that is roundwill make me mad. if i fight with the round ones, still with me?i'm missing the point. but if i achieve consciousnessand i ask myself, "why do round ones bother me?"

then i’ll come across this beliefthat keeps messing up my life and doesn't let meaccept round ones. but now replace the round oneswith your mother-in-law, your father-in-law, your brother-in-law, your sister-in-law, your brother, your sister... as a girl with a cold sore said to methe other day: “so? aren’t you going to say anythingabout the cold sore?

it’s better that...” “ok, i won't say anything,don't worry.” “ok, you know what?say something.” “i’d say...”“i already know what it is.” “oh you do? what is it?”“i had a fight with my family”. “really? is that it? are you ok?i’ll be off then.” “well, i don't really know. this is my explanation: we had a fight but i don't really knowwhat happened to me.”

“good, now you are starting to think. you've reached the consciousness that you’re missingthe easy explanation. yes, you argued with your family. but dig a little deeper? what was the reasonyou argued with them?” “well, i didn’t really arguewith my family.” “really?”“i argued with my sister. who's in my family, obviously.

but it’s not with my family anymore.it's with my sister.” “ok, so what do you see roundin your sister?” are you following? “the round thing in my sister is that she won't put herself out.” “what do you meanby ‘won't put herself out’?” all following? “can you explain?

what does your sister do for youto decide that she won't put herself out?” “well, the thing my sister doesthat bothers me is that our parents came to live here and they're living in a rented flat, and... i’m the one who goes round every day and goes for walks with them.” and?

“my sister doesn't”"and? what's the problem? you go because you want to, don’t you?" “well, when you put it like that...” “or maybe you don't, and your sister doesn't.” “she definitely doesn't.”“do you see that? this is what bothers you,

she does what she wantsand you don't. so here's the question: why force yourself to do somethingyou don't want to?” and the answer is always a belief. did you understand the example?extrapolate it to whatever you want. that's how it is. of course, i think i’m right. we need to be with our parentsor whoever, right?

or we have to do whateveror look after them, whatever it may be, if i do it sincerely, i couldn't care lesswhether other people do it or not. and if the one who doesn't,annoys me, they are showing me that i’m a hypocrite and i'm livingin emotional incoherence. remember this because it's key.

on the one hand, there’s this. and on the other, we could think: "i really want to search,but i don't know what to do, i don't know where to go”. simple! do nothing at all. connect with your heart,connect with a situation and let the solution come. don't search for it.

but to do this,we need to start with the mind. our mind has two ways of perceiving, just two: dual, i am separate, and holistic or quantum,i'm attached to everything. and my way of perceiving, obviously, is determined by this belief. the primary belief that robs us of our emotional freedom

is the beliefthat we are all separate. and today’s talk is about questioning this belief and deconstructing it in order to entera holistic consciousness, a quantum consciousness,a science of consciousness in which we can realize that what surrounds meis in resonance with my beliefs, and that these are conditioning

all the circumstances of my life. because in the dual perspective, what happens around meis due to bad luck, or it's bad karma or god knows what, or the cross god sent me to bear. when in fact everythingthat happens in my life is in resonance with me, and this resonanceis conditioned by my beliefs. and if i don’t gain consciousnessof this

and i want to fight what is outside, not only will it not disappear,but the law states, when i attack something,i simply reinforce it. this is the principleof complementarity. we live in a dual world, and positive polarity cannotexist without negative polarity. attacking one of them is absurd. intelligence... emotional intelligenceis about transcending opposites

and that's when we find the solution. so, let’s see if this changes,i don't know if i have to do this. yes? no? the key... i was looking hereand it's there. the key to choosing a resultfrom many different ones lies in our ability to feel that our choice is already happening. pay attention here,

this is the key to today's talk. who hasn't been in a situation, such as this: “i argued with my partner, i argued with my husband or wife”, “should i leave my boyfriend”, “i don't know whether to tellmy friend to get stuffed”, "i don't know..."? who hasn't been in a situationlike this?

we're all human beings here,all of us. maybe there's someone who’s not. all of us. now, i’ll make thisas practical as i can. we're thinking:“so what should we do?” we ask our friends,that's what they're here for. but we don't realizethat our friends, and that's what they're there for, are going to project on mewhat fits in with their own story.

for example, you ask a friendwho's spent the past five years putting upwith her delightful husband, who's always playing aroundwith other women. and you go all determinedand you say: “you know what, pepita? i’m going to tell my husbandto clear off, or get lost or whatever. now, she automatically... her beliefs that justify her

holding on to a situationthat she does not want to be in, everybody with me? these beliefs, automatically,when we present them to a friend, they start shaking. and so the friend begins: "have you thought it through?” of course. she says this because she's spent five yearsthinking about it.

some take twenty-five. but it’s irrelevant becausethe unconscious has no sense of time. they think about it. but the wrinkles appearand they carry on. and she starts to talk you round maybe your husbanddeserves another chance. and you say: "another? but he's on his twenty-fifth.” “just think about it.”

then you go to another who kicked hersin the you-know-whats. “what do you think?”“what are you waiting for?” so betweenthe one who says think about it and the other who tell youto hurry up about it, you’ve no idea what to do. but you don't realize that your contactsaren't there by coincidence, they're in you through resonance. they’re not making you think twice.

they’re showing you your doubts. this is called dualitybut it’s not really dual. they are resonating. this is when one needs to be silent. and know that the solution or possible solutions for your situation,not theirs, do you follow me?, is there. and this iswhen you really need to stop looking,

stop asking, stop querying, stop talking, and then, when you least expect it,you’ll know what to do. this is called consciousness; when a person achieves consciousnessthey don't ask anybody they act. i remember, thanks for the applause. i remember, it's come to me now, the case of a lady who had,i believe, peritoneal cancer.

this was about fifteen years ago,and it’s come back to me now, but it was very funny. i was simply a mirror for her, and i'd ask her neutral questions,like i’m doing now. and she had a thing with a husbandwho had no interest in working. and she'd been waitingfor the guy to find work for twenty-five years. and the peritoneum is closelyconnected to family protection. i can't remember the conflict.

but i do rememberthe funny part of the story: she gets up and she says: “thanks enric.i've reached awareness.” and left. ok. and as she was leaving i said: “if you want to see me again,make an appointment downstairs...” but i thought:“she’s not coming back". she was so clear...

and she did come back,after a month or two. and i say: “well, what happened?” and she says: “it became so clear that i got upand i went straight to the solicitor. i went to sort out some thingsi had with my husband. i sorted it all out right there. and do you know something? i’m not sick anymore. i've come to say thanks.”

the visit was: “solicitor, thanks, bye.” i never saw her again. just a few minutesbefore i came out here i was doing the same. i freed my mindof any line of thought, without worryingabout what i had to say. i emptied my mind of everythingi know, and felt the energy of the field.

and my whole body vibrated. and when i came out herei knew what i had to do. i don't look for the words. the words come to me. i look for ideas, they come. because i am connected to the field. this is why there are no problems, only opportunitiesto express yourself. the ego, the mind, would say:

“how? when? in what way?” that's control. the dual mindis a deterministic mind that thinks it can control events. the quantum mind,quantum consciousness is indeterminate. it always knowsthat there is a solution. but for the solutionto come into your life

you must give up searchingfor a solution in your life. you must know that you don't know. you must know that you have to eliminateall your beliefs in your life in order to see the situationand know what you have to do. and the symptom, the certaintythat it's something you must do, is just to listen to your heart. the heart is connected to the field.

the mind is not. the mind uses the field. but it's the heart that is connected. so for different peoplein seemingly equivalent situations, it’s not the same. each has their own solution. this is today's proposal. this is emotional freedom: knowing that every situationhas a raison d’ãªtre,

and when we stop searchingfor the solution to the situation the solution comes. and what i'm explaining here now, may sound like pseudo philosophy, but it has a scientific basis,which we're going to talk about now. as you know,i have a scientific mind. so what i’m saying hereisn’t something i made upon a balmy summer's afternoon like yesterday,which was a hot one.

so let’s get on with it. if it wants to change. at first,there were only probabilities. the universe could only comeinto existence if someone observed it. no matter that the observersappeared billions of years later. "the universe existsbecause we are aware of it." martin rees, professorat the university of cambridge and astronomer royal of england. what is the point...?

what is the point of all the energyaround us, the whole universe around us, if there is no consciousnessto observe it? what is the point? here are all the possibilities. our possibilitiesare in direct relation with how i perceive my reality. in other words: in direct relationwith my state of consciousness. that's why these talksand these videos

have an aim, one, to help give the worldanother level of consciousness. when this happens, when you really observeyour emotions, your feelings, as i did the other day, when i was leaving the carin the garage and i felt sad, i observed my sadness. why are you sad?

and i ignored that silly old fool who tries to justify it all: "you’re sadbecause you've found yourself..." and comes upwith a thousand stories. i continued to observeand let my mind babble on alone. still with me? you should already knowthat you are neither body nor mind. you are consciousness. you already know this.

and i reached the consciousness that i had falleninto the trap of fatigue, i had falleninto the trap of the ego of believingthat what i was doing was tiring me, of believing that what i was saying well, i was totally fed up of it, of saying it over and over. and i became aware of it. and i said to myself:

"thank you.i need some space.” if you make spaceand don't take a stance... i think that's the phrase in here. isn't it? i didn't choose the phrase. it’s mine, but they put it in. if you want a clear vision,don't take a stance. if they’ve seen my talk,well, they have... these thingsdon't just happen overnight.

so, imagine, this... when i read it, i really liked it, because i thought:"there's another synchronicity". my team’s unconscious knewthat i was going to talk about this. not consciously,but unconsciously they did, and they chose that phrase. so, if i really want to seethe situation and know what it is i have to do, i have to stop taking stances.

i have to stop beingthe victim of a situation. "my husband’s cheated on metwenty-five times” "no darling;you've cheated yourself twenty-five times thanks to him. so thank your husband, for coming into your lifeto cheat on you, for you to learnthat you're cheating yourself. and ask yourself why you chose that husbandand to live with this deceit.

and you’ll knowthe belief that lies within you.” ok? great, let's carry on. now we’re all on the same level. this has a bit of a delayed reaction. i’m not sure if it's working...oh, i’d switched it off. so, "physics encountersconsciousness". one of the books that really...you know i always recommend books, don't you?

and you know i do itbecause i want to, i don’t get any commission for it, but if i see an interesting book,i’ll say: “this is a good book”. i’d had this book for a while, but one day i got up andi was thinking about today's talk, and i said to the universe: "how can i approach this?" are you with me?do you see how this works?

"how should i approach this?" and i went to bed. and in the morning i get up and i've got a bookshelf with maybe two hundred books on it,lots, and i stop at one, like somethingwas pulling me by the neck. and i take that little book and read: "quantum enigma. physics encounters consciousness".

and i say: "thanks, boss. that’s it, don't worry.it's all clear now.” and there it is. dr bruce rosenblumand his colleague fred kuttner say in their book, "quantum enigma", "there is no way to interpretquantum theory without encountering consciousness." there is no way. it's what i was saying before.

max planck,father or one of the fathers of quantum mechanics, says: "i cannot be sure that the mathematical lawson which physics is based today will have to be the same tomorrow." in the dual mind,this begs the question: "what's up with max planck?" what's the guy saying? that the laws of nature today,the object of such intense study

and so deterministicmay not be applicable tomorrow?" and he goes on and ends with: "because we are only consciousness, all that mattersis consciousness." this all happenedabout a hundred years ago. what is max planck saying? what he's saying is this: what these doctorsare updating for us: that all that mattersis our consciousness,

and the laws of the worldin which we live relate to our level of consciousness. what really governs natureare not laws, because laws can be very different if we're in another kind of worldor at another level of consciousness. this is what max planckwas saying when he wrote: we are consciousness, one consciousness that is limited

by beliefs that we have projectedon our mind and which snatchat our emotional freedom and make us live out experiences again and again that we cannot understandwhy we repeat. people sometimes ask me: “how is it that i always fall in lovewith infertile guys? why do i only fall in love with guyswho just want to sleep with me? how is itthat i really can't find men or women

who really want to marry me? “i always fall in lovewith the same ones." "no, you always fall in lovewith your same beliefs.” yes, take a deep breath. do you know what takinga deep breath means? somebody's had an idea. wham! as they say in mexico,the penny's dropped. anyway, they have an idea. the thing that really revolutionizedphysics, or quantum mechanics,

is consciousness,that consciousness that appears in the famousobserver's experiment. there are many explanations. eleven interpretations, it says here. i think there are twelve or more,whatever. there are many interpretationsof the observer effect or copenhagen experiment, but all of them, all twelve,as doctor bruce rosenblum says, in the end,in a clearer or more veiled way,

cannot explain what they are seeingif there is no consciousness. so, consciousness is really the most important thing. and i repeat,the problem is not being conscious. we are all conscious. the problem is that we projectour consciousness on to our minds, and the mind doeswhat it pleases with it. and it is conditioned by our beliefs. now, then,

dr paul pearsall saysin his book "the heart's code", which i recommend. "the heart's code" says: “information and energyare one in the same. everything that exists is energy,and energy is full of information and stored energy formscell memory.” in other words,it's the principle of quantum physics or the principle of physics, that says energy is neither creatednor destroyed, but transformed.

so, if energy is neither creatednor destroyed but transformed, energy is forever. hence, one definition of god is: he is the alpha and the omega,the beginning and the end. this is why we area sea of information connected toan ocean of information, in a way. and this informationthat i will receive during my life, in my situation,

if i'm asleep and thinking that what happens to me isdue to external causes rather than internal causes, if i continue like this,i won't realize that the same storiesdon't repeat themselves over and over due to bad luck.it's funny, more people believe in bad luckthan in god. there are lots of peoplein the brotherhood of bad luck, or of good luck, the idea’s the same,

that it's relative. or the brotherhoodof "this is all chance". when in fact,all this information makes our bodies, which have millionsand millions of functions, work. and my question is: do they work by chance?, do they work by good luck?

and when they don't work well,is it bad luck? you're with me, right? "what happens to my body has nothing to do with me. it gets sick by itself.” but, as i will show and explain, my thoughts, if i see something... what i do first when isee something is...? i think. did you know that?i think.

and depending on my thoughts i’ll have an emotional reaction.do we all agree? interestingly, this emotional reaction depends on my beliefs simple as that. everybody think of somethingnow that you do not like, something that bothered you. little things,i’m not talking drama here. i'm not talkingabout the people suffering in syria...

no, no, everyday things, how they are really conditioning us, constantly. one good question that a man or womancan ask themselves is: what was i thinking the dayi married this person? good question. but they only ask the question, they don’t go any further. then they see their friendsand ask if the same happened to them.

"of course, they're all alike.” this is called resonance. we now have the group of friends of: "all men are the same." and “nobody understands women”. that's as deep as it gets, and don't talk anymorei'm really tired. that's how we work. "women are from venusand men are from mars".

"men have one neuronand women have five.” "don't leave women alonebecause they need a man.” a matter of polarities. and that's as far as we go.good question. "what was i thinkingwhen i married him? or what’s more pathetic: "a little voice said to me:” don't marry him.” "the little voice told me.”

and my question is:why did you get married? then the silly old fool rearsits head in reflection: "well, the invites were written...” so we put up with a shitty lifefor some invitations. "so my parents didn't get mad.” "who got married? you or them?” we don't go far enough. why am i doing this? what belief is automating me,

robotizing, hypnotizing me to do things that i knowi don't have to do "oh, lord, there’s the priest.i’m almost there.” and when i get there and he says: "do you take this manuntil death do you part?” and you say:"what am i supposed to do now?" and you look back at all the peopleand say: “oh lord!” and at the other one who’s... and then there's the other one:"how can i do this to him?"

you're not doinganything to anybody, silly. you’re doing it to yourself. and as divorce is fashionable,it’s going to be expensive too. better to call it off than pay for the weddingand the divorce. i’m catalan you see. this is important. it's important. if it were my daughter, i’d say:

don't worry;i’ll cover what we've spent, at leastthere’ll be no more expenses.” that’s sensible, isn't it? you need to laugh it off, because you feel betterwhen you laugh. right, let's carry on. i’m feeling thrifty today. i don't want to waste energy. has this changed? yes.

john bell, doctor of physics. "suppose for example that quantum mechanics were foundto resist precise formulation.” this reflection is basedon the following... so, many people do not understandquantum physics. someone might say:"but you're not a physicist." "don’t worry, dr rosenblum says you don't have to be a physicistto understand quantum physics. physicists tend to have moreproblems than non-physicists."

and he's a physicist. that’s why we’re good friends. i’d had this book for a while.it appeared the other day. newtonian mechanics predicts. if i throw a stone at a certain speedand force, and it weighs so much,it will reach a point, and that’s true. and i can tell you:"it's going to land there.” i won't be far wrong. otherwise, we would have just missedlanding on the moon.

oh, nearly, launch another rocket! quantum physics, however,is indeterministic, that is, it’s a probability. but in the end the doctors say: “what we want to happen alwaysjust happens.” the observer effect. loads of experiments have been donein countless ways with different obstacles,and it’s always the same, and they don't know why,

or they do,but they keep changing things. but in the end, that’s the result. he says: "suppose that quantum mechanicswere found to resist precise formulation. suppose thatwhen formulation beyond fapp is attempted, we find an unmovable fingerobstinately pointing outside the subject,to the mind of the observer,

to the hindu scriptures, to god,or even only gravitation? would that not be very,very interesting? because quantummechanics actually... take note, this would be the screen;and black is great. this would be the screen: there's nothing,these are possibilities. and the possibilitythat what happens depends on us. but we are not aware thatthe possibility of something happening here depends on us and our beliefs,in particular.

ok?so, when i think; so, if i think, i believe, that if i do or don't do something,such a thing will happen, rest assured that it will happen. and then they say:"see? i was right." and the quantum field says: "that's why i’m here,to prove you right." "one of the silliest beliefsthat exist is called believing in fear.

everybody with me? believing in fear. what is belief in fear based on? quite simply,belief in fear is based on thinking that we can control. "are you sure about marryingramon, maria? he's already cheated on you twice",before getting married. so the girl already knowsthat he's going to cheat on her. "i know, don't worry, i’ll change him.

don't worry.” and he cheats on her three times,four times, twenty-four times. that's how it goes. so when i see something white and i don't like itand think i'll just change it, that's my first mistake, because then i think: "what if it doesn’t change? what if i can’t do it?"

and then i get scared. fear is based on the belief that there is a way to control events, and there is no way to control events, the way to be coherent in life is knowing that you don’t knowwhat’s best for you, and to stop looking. then you start to look around you, knowing that you are attractingwhat is around you

through your beliefs. for example... they are hypnotized as children: "daughter,men are only after one thing." and they don't really knowwhat ‘the thing’ is". and they say to themselves: "what does my mum meanby ‘one thing’?" but don’t worry sweethearts,their mother knows. and the quantum fieldthat binds them

has sent them what is calledthe little seed. bam! and when they start to get the urge, and start looking for guys, the only ones who come nearthem all want the thing, always the thing, and they say:"now i know what ‘the thing’ is". and we don't realizethat this person who loves us so much, no doubt about it, messes us up so much,no doubt about that either. and she does it with love.

and with very good intentions, because it’s "for their own good". now, "for their own good”is just what happened to her. because she is not aware that when she says"this could be like this" everybody following? the quantum field projectsthat it may be so. it's just so pathetic, right? and we don’t get it.then the mind says:

"it’s your mother's fault."it’s always somebody’s fault. but the only thing their mothers did was to pass on information, with every good intention. but their mothers send theminformation that is highly conditioned by their beliefs and experiences. she didn't askwhy she had that experience. do you understand? when somebody asks,"why am i having this experience?",

they transcend the information, they change itand free their descendants. that's love. when i am in a painful,uncomfortable, dissonant situation, obviously it can really get me down, but we need to probe, probe. because if i can achieveconsciousness of this, i'll free myself and many more people.

not only my family,but the entire world. because, in the end,as the voice told me: "if your life serves onlyto help a child of god find inner peace,your life has purpose." now we, the dual mind, could say: “one? live for one person? me?" no, thanks. because one is one for the divine mindor the quantum mind. one is one.

if someone here is healed we can all be healed. i just need to...now... conscious observation. when quantum mechanics highlighted the enigma of the act of observation, obviously, we entereda speculative philosophy. and the reflection is: we are a very preciseadjustment of the big bang.

in his book, "biocentrism",robert lanza tells us that the universein which we live, which exists thanks to two hundredcosmological constants. two hundred constants. and he saysthat if any of these constants were to vary by a minute percentage, we simply would not be livingin the world we are in, nor the universe we are in. so the question is this:

the famous big bang was an explosionof full consciousness, right? because if there are two hundredcosmological constants of pinpoint accuracy,or to the hundredth, and small changesin any of these constants would alter the world in which live, what would be the point of all this if there were noconsciousness to observe it? on this topic, robert lanza says... this is what we will move on to now,the anthropic principle:

"was there reallyan anthropic principle?” what does ‘anthropic principle’mean? from anthropology, that is,a principle of a conscious act. was there really a conscious act? i want you to understand something: when we have a problem and we cannot find the solution, when we stop searching,it usually appears. it's like when you lose your keys.

science tells us that when we get an idea, this idea,if we could observe our brain, would be a big bang-like explosion, but smaller. indeed, we call it a flash. “gosh, i’ve just had a flash, eureka!" and we add a light bulb, in the joke: "eureka, i found it!i found the solution."

and we don't usuallyexpect the solution. “what can we do?”and the solution appears. this is the explosion,it’s called "an act of consciousness". i've achieved consciousness.” thanks to the problems i have, i remained silentand achieved consciousness. that's the anthropic principle. the anthropic principle says:“is there really a conscious act?” and thenthere's the strong anthropic principle

and the weak anthropic principle. the strong one saysthat we created the world. we created the universe.robert lanza goes so far as to say: “we created our bodiesand we created the whole universe." and the weak one saysthat we came from matter. so inert matter appears in the mind. got it? but both suggest that there isat least an intelligence. weak anthropic principle advocates

call this intelligence nature. they say: "this is nature." as if nature were... it’s nature. introduce me to it then. doctors used to say: "let nature take its course." when there’s a wound... for example,it you cut a salamander’s tail off,

or a lizard's, nature acts by making it the same,doesn't it? neither slightly longernor slightly shorter, the same. haven't you ever wonderedhow they get it the same? who’s the architect? what advocates of the weakanthropic principle want most, and deny is they don't thinkthey can change their life. while the strong anthropic principle

puts all the responsibility on us. it says: "don’t complain, you are the onesconstantly creating this." and they say:"and when did i decide this?" “that’s the problem, you were asleep.” that’s why we're giving this talk, so you can startachieving consciousness. “what do i have to do?”not much. it’s called stop searchingand observe.

stop searching and observe. stop believing that you knowthe solution to your problems. you don’t know the solutionto your problems. why not?because you keep repeating them. because you keep repeating them. simply because you repeat them. right! dr rosenblum saysthat we’re heading for a... he doesn’t call it quantum mechanics.

he doesn’t say quantum physics;he calls it physics of consciousness. so, in his famous pyramid: quantum mechanics, physics,chemistry, biology, psychology, he changes quantum mechanicsfor physics of consciousness. and he says: "when experts cannot agree, one can choosewhich expert to believe." that’s why there are peoplewho question what i say which i think is great.

because the more i’m questioned,the stronger i become. gandhi said: "when a person has an innovative idea that goes against the establishment, the first thing they do is ignore you; the second is to laugh at you, and the third, to attack you. and when they attack, you have won."

because what they don't knowabout the dual mind is that i obtain my strength precisely fromthe complementary opposition; note, i don't say contrary,i say complementary. the ones on my sideare of little use to me. ok, sorry. i'm going to ask a favour, and i say this from the heart: anyone who feels grateful towards me,

anyone who feels grateful towards me, and thinks ‘what can i do?’because it's happened to me, and i sometimes get into troublebecause i’m given gifts, in places, and i don’t knowwhat to do with them... right, so, when experts cannot agree, we’ll always find people who say: "quantum physics? oh that..." maybe because they don’t get the rest. every day, physicists are saying:

"people, this is what there is, and to understand it,we must change our beliefs and question everything that has takenso much intellectual effort, which has served, obviously, to apply other laws in our lives.” which is what we are doing today.let’s get on then. the family secret of physics. all families have secrets, don’t they?

well, i'm explainingthe physics one now. john bell,a phenomenal physicist, "i suspected,about quantum mechanics, that an error would not be foundin its predictions, but that it was an incomplete theory." note, einstein also saidthat it was an incomplete theory. now i don’t think bell and einsteinthought the same, but i don't know, so we’ll leave it. for him, quantum mechanics revealsthe lack of completeness

or action of completingour vision of the world. attention to what he says: he thought that the waywe see the world would involve a huge imaginative leapthat will or would surprise us. what does this mean? well, that the quantum fieldis a field of probabilities. and you may well ask:"how many probabilities are there?" i don't know. but what john bell does say

is that if i achieve the consciousness that i am a conscious observer– still with me? – the quantum field will give memany more probabilities than it had at the start. as we all expand our consciousness the quantum field increasesits levels of probabilities. that’s exactly what he says. and this takes us into metaphysics, because we're now in metaphysics,

which lets non-physicists, says bell, have as valid an opinionas physicists. once again: when we start saying this,which i've been saying for a while, like so many others,that when i reach consciousness... in fact, linear quantum mechanics is the quantum mechanics telling usthat there are probabilities. and non-linearquantum mechanics tells us thatwhen there is a conscious observer,

first it would be 2+2=4, second it would be 2+2= 25, that is,the sum of the parts is far greater simplybecause there is a conscious act. it is as if consciousnessobserves itself and starts creating. we are creators. somewhat asleep, but creators. and what controls and robotizes us

is the fact that we thinkthat our circumstances are due to bad karma, because we have to pay for our sins or god knows what, but don’t forgetthat the world religions are dual and always work from duality: "you must do...","you must not do...", “you must go...""you must not go..." and so on. this brings us to the family secret,

which many physicists hideand many physicists deny, they don't dare to stand up and say to everybody: "we officially declarethat each of you is a conscious observer and that you are creating your reality based on your level of consciousness which is in direct relationto your beliefs." i have experiences

and i don't label them as good or bad, they're just experiences. because when i label themas good or bad i judge them. if i label them and i judge them, this judgement will determinewhat follows. and then i won't knowwhy things happen to me and i won't realizethat what is happening to me is because of a judgement i made.

when you are freed, and you free you expect nothing, and that's when anything can happen, even the most unthinkable. great! when i say ‘ok?’,i’m not asking you to agree. be clear on that. the essence of the universe,emotion. if you want to connectwith the quantum field, do you want to?

sorry, you are already connected. if you want to connect consciously,it’s called emotion. with emotion. when you have an experiencebased on your beliefs, they generate a type of emotion, and this emotion resonatesin the quantum field, and it’s often an emotionthat we are not conscious of, stories repeat themselves, because the unconsciousdoes not judge.

it's as simple as that. the quantum field works very simply, as we were explaining at dinneri said: "look at this in the quantum field." and the person says:"i don't want..." put whatever you wantin your mobile, "i don't want to see dogs", i don't want, whatever, and see what you get.

"i don't want men who leave." and you get "real men" and things like that. i did different exercises,asking and i said: "internet, google, the internet field, is like the quantum field,you give information" right? "and it gives you information;it doesn't judge,

and "no" doesn't existin the universe." try it.put: "i don't want to meet big men." big. big men. we did one that was:"i want a hunk of a man." it was very good,i mean, what is a hunk? and it comes back with el fary. el fary came up.

and i said: "no, you have to be very clearabout what kind of man you want.” if you say: "i want a man to protect and take care of me." you’ll get "real men". all real men. why am i telling you this? because it’s a great exampleof how the quantum field works.

you give information and the quantum fielddoesn't judge it. if you tell the quantum field"i don't want coffee", you’ll get coffee, because you're not telling itwhat you do want. if you say"i want a man who loves me", it will send you a manwho’ll give you the experience of lack of affection. because you’re projecting an emotion.

which? the emotion of lack.are you following? this is what you get. ahhhhh! do you see? have you just realized it too? she says: "now i understandwhy i always get the same ones.” well, we spentthe whole meal doing that. it was very funny, and we were like... "let's do another!”so that’s how it works.

that's why, in "hamlet",shakespeare writes: "there are more thingsin heaven and earth, horatio, thanare dreamt of in your philosophy." this is why i say: "have you ever asked yourselfhow you feel and you can't find an explanation or why the same storiesrepeat themselves?" it’s simply becauseif you were to say: "i want a manwho loves and respects me.”

and you say it without judging,right? the universe understands that. but if you send it outwith judgement, resentment, with anger, it will bring you a manto live out this anger. please listen to this. if you say the same thingwith an emotion of gratitude a man will comewho will make you feel this gratitude, because, basically,the universe sends you things

based on your feelings and emotions. you’re also breathing now, huh? that's why emotions and feelings are supported by beliefs deeply rooted in our personalities. and we need to wake up. we need to reach consciousness. it's not about not feeling emotions. remember i said that i felt sad.

ok? it’s an emotion. emotions are neither good nor bad. they are emotions. i felt sad,because it’s a way of communicating. i looked for the sourceof that sadness, do you understand? and i didn't let the silly old foolstart talking nonsense. "because you came acrosssuch a thing on the road..." whatever, i don't know. "your wife didn't give you a kisstoday.” i don't know.

it invents millions of arguments,but you say: "no, no, go on now, get out." that's when you realizethat you woke up this morning and when you got up,you were thinking about what you had to do and you thought:“oh god!” but that was just a moment, nothing, tenths of a second. enough. you're up, you've shaved,you've showered, you've got ready,

but you already... that’s how it is, isn't it? this is called probing,conscious observation, not falling into the trapof justification. "i must have slept badly,the window was open, i went for dinner late yesterday, my husband didn’t squeeze my bumtoday...” no, no, no. it doesn’t work like that.

forget all that crap and get to the point. following the same line of argument, there are two very good authorsfor whom i have great respect. one is antonio r. damasio.in his book "descartes' error", he says something, and then there's albert ellis,doctor of psychology, who’s no longer with us. and both study this.

really... damasio saysthat when we think of something, there is an emotional impact. and when there is an emotional impact,i work through it and i create my thoughts.yes? it’s true, that's how it is. but there’s a part,which is what albert ellis studies, that tells us that human beingshave a tendency when things are going well

to wonder whenthey are going to go bad. this is what he says. he doesn't use these words,he expresses it with more class, but essentially he says this. both of them are right. ellis always saysthat patterns of thought, called cognitive distortions, have adverse effectson emotions and behaviour. you can practice this anytime.

you are having a quiet mealwith someone, a very pleasant conversationand suddenly someone mentions someone or sends a reflectionand the emotion automatically changes. have you seen that? and there’s been no emotional impact. so, both are right. they talk about the same things,but in different ways. damasio is not a psychologistwhile the other one is, it's more his line of work.

damasio says that if you havean unexpected emotional impact, this will obviously triggerphysical sensations in you and some very biological emotions. if you come across, let's say,a rabid dog on the street, you don't think: "oh look, rabid..."no. your adrenaline goes up, right?yes? and you're going to express fear,aren't you? and you’ll say: "feet, this is why i love you,i wasn't planning on running today."

very good! reaching consciousness.i’ve explained that now. that's what it says here. albert ellis tells us: "if there is an event, and it produces consequences,then there are beliefs.” many people thinkthat to change the consequences they have to change the eventsand very often this can't be done.

the only thing we can dois change our beliefs. he says there are surface beliefsand hidden ones, and as you have just seen i call the surface ones"the silly old fool's ones” and the hidden onesare those that require probing. so, the surface beliefs,which damasio calls secondary, are those that i express easily. i express them very quickly,while the hidden ones are the ones that support the emotionsthat condition my life so much

and make me repeat experiencesthat i consider painful. and finally we ask:"so what's going on here?" and today we’re giving answersto what's going on. eckhart tolle, author of "the power of now"– anybody read it? – says: "conflicts arisebetween surface thoughts and the thoughts that nestin our unconscious.” as tolle says, "thought lies, emotion always tells the truth,not the ultimate one

but the one underlying the conflict." so,if i really want to change my life, right? what i have to do is observethe emotion i'm repressing, which is a judgement making melive my life a certain way. this is what eckhart tolle says. which is why he develops thismentality of being in the present, in the here and now. i liked it because it’s reallywhat i want to explain.

i want to explain this, in reality, my thought always tries to justify,but if there is an emotion... haven't you found yourselves givingexplanations to everyone but...? so what do we do with these beliefs? we culturalize them. why culturalize our beliefs? think. the answer is very important.

it's not a test, don't worry. we have certain beliefs, beliefs that condition our behaviour, and these beliefs are shared, and how they are shared, many do it, what many do,to avoid saying that we’re fools, we say it’s culture. we culturalize. for example:throwing a donkey off a belfry.

for example. no, let’s state things as they are. and we justifythrowing a donkey off a belfry. or setting fire to a bull's horns. he’d stick them you know where.anyway. "no, it's always been this way." ah, right then. and must we continueto act like idiots forever? ok, let's leave the donkey.

shall we move on to something else? everybody following?hello? everybody with me? i know it hurts, and it's tough, because, you know,"it’s the village celebrations". then there are other celebrations: "let’s throw tomatoes at each other." and they throw tomatoes. and i think:

"they're great in salads, but i think these ones are rubbish." and we can go on like this,but it’s not necessary. there's no need, is there? we culturalize any stupidity, from jupiter,which is a good place to travel. you watch all these thingsfrom jupiter and you say: "why would they throwa donkey off a belfry?” and why would they catch that poor

animal and set fire to its horns? and why are they running behind bulls, and then they run into someoneand end up gutting them? what's the point?" they are innocent questions. "no. this is culture, it's national heritage.” well,put national heritage aside and ask yourselveswhy we do these things.

but ask yourselves why we dothese things without justifying it. it’s just an exercise. that’s my sole intention:to do an exercise. i went to each one,i took the beliefs. lots of us make themand call them culture. why do we do it?to justify ourselves. that's it. that’s as far as we go.the reflection ends here. there's no need to go deeper. the work i do hereis simply to get people to think

and ask "why do i do that?" but let’s not fallinto the trap of culturalization, which is what we are saying here. that thought isn’t mine, it’s from scholars. this is where interculturalconflicts arise, the cause of so many mix-upsand belligerent attitudes. right? they come from here. look.

other beliefs that really wreak havocaround the world are called nationalisms. the problem of youwanting to be green or red should not be a problem. the problem is that the greenswant the reds to be green, or the other way around, understand? that's when the problems start. it's like a garden the flowers quarrel,they all have to be daisies

or roses or gladioli. and the gardener says: "what’s wrong with my plants today?" they're all supportedby the same garden and the same gardener." duality or non-duality. indeed, diversity is the ultimateexpression of the universe. everything comes in many varietiesin the universe, because wealth lies in variety,

not in monochrome. in other words,plurality or pluripotency is with us, it’s part of us,the quantum field says so. when there is a conscious observer the quantum field can createfar more than it really can. it can create infiniteforms and means. and must this form be worsethan that one? this is duality. are you with meas to why we aren't happy?

we are trapped by our beliefs, we are trapped by our values, we are trapped by our rules which, in turn,we nurture with beliefs. nobody says there must be no rules. imagine if we could goon a red or green light. there'd be some right smash-ups. in cairo, they've got it all sorted. do you know how?they don't use traffic lights.

who goes first?the one with the most. some of them get behind the carwith the most and when it goes they all close their eyes and follow. but they told me:"we don't use lights here, otherwise, we wouldn't drive.” which is a belief in itself. there's nothing like travellingto realize that. with a few trips under your belt,you’re set, it’s amazing; we’ll get back to it.

so, these beliefs hypnotize us and, as albert ellis would say, they are supportedby "i must", "i have to". ring a bell? let's see some examples.i’ve used three. i gave you some before,but here are some more. woman wants to divorce herhusband because he won't work. note, in a clinic, right?i’m in a class,

and a lady tells me:"i want to divorce my husband." right then. that was the exercise. "and i want to reach awarenessof why i want to divorce my husband." now, they're students,so they ask the question. "i want to get divorced;i’m sure of it." and she said to me:"i'm getting divorced. but why do i want a divorce?" and i said: "that's the question:why do you want a divorce?"

and she says: "he doesn't work." next question: "doesn’t your husband protect you?" she says: "yes." biologically, to protect meansto bring home the mammoth. "does he bring home the mammoth?"she says: "yes." "where from? if he doesn’t work...” she says: "his parents are millionairesand they gave him his inheritance

and when he got it he decidedhe wouldn’t work anymore." "ok," i say, “let’s recap: you’re telling me, sorry, i’m from jupiterand i want to get this straight, you’re telling me that you want to divorce your husband because he’s now a millionaire?" and she says: “more or less, yes.”

"well, this is a belief because: does your husband hit you? does your husband respect you? tell me one thing you don't likeabout your husband." she says: "no, i like everythingabout my husband." "except that he won't work.that's why you want a divorce? in other words, you’re telling me you like everything about him, and he's now a millionaire

but he won’t workso you want a divorce? is that right?” and she says:"exactly, you got it, enric." well, where is the beliefthat gets to you so much? and the belief wasthat her grandmother, her mother, her other grandmother,all had men who didn't work. but they didn't bringa mammoth home, right? but the unconsciousdoesn’t analyze that. the unconscious reacts,

- are you with me? - the belief is triggeredwhen she sees that he doesn't work, it doesn't analyze the factthat there's no need, he’ll still bring it home. with what he has, you can buy 25 thousandmammoths every day and you’ll never get through them. and she said... she did this: "what a fool i am."

"silly, fool... don't worry, you’re neither;you were hypnotized by your belief." true story, i didn’t make it up. let's see, another one. woman complains about husbandbecause he doesn't do enough at home. this is a good one. really good. i’ve included itbecause there’s no drama. in these cases, there’s no drama.

simply put,my husband doesn’t help at home. “tell me about it.” “i work so hard.” “and your husband?”“the same.” “when you get home what do you do?”“i look after our son.” “and what does your husband do?”“what i tell him to.” “wow!” “and what do you say?” “pepito, set the table

and then play with your daughter. “and what does your husband do?”“sets the table and plays with her.” and i’m thinking: "well i never!" “but your husbanddoes whatever you want." and she says:“no, no, it's worse now.” “worse? why?”“because i work more now.” “and your husband?”“as always.” “and what does he do?”“well, when he gets home

i’ve already told himwhat he has to do. but there's still lots to be done, and my husband doesn’t help enough.” “oh dear... this is a belief. the same type as the other,it’s a belief. name a woman from your clanwho was a servant. because i said, name a woman from your clanwho was really alone at home.

my grandmother was like cinderella,a servant. she worked all dayand her husband was never home. so i said: “why don't you geta maid to help at home?” and when i said ‘maid’, she went pale, because her belief is that she was the maid, that's why there was no maid at home, because if a maid came into the homeshe'd take her husband.

see to what extent our beliefs condition usand screw our lives up. i’m not exaggerating. she got up, hugged me, and said: “enric, how can i ever repay you?” “put me in your prayers.” i’m very clear about that:"put me in your prayers." woman married to her husbandfor over 25 years knowing from the startof their marriage

that he was cheating and still is. and i say to her:“really?” “so what's happening now?” “we're always fighting.”“why?” “over our son.”“how old is he?” “23.”“and what's going on?” “i tell him to leave home and my husband sayshe doesn’t want him to.” “really?” this is usually the other way around,

the woman doesn’t want them to goand the husband wants them out. “why doesn't he want him to go?” “he knows that if his son goes i go.” “hang on a minute. you're telling methat your husband knows that if your son goes,you’ll leave home? why do you say that?” “because i told my husband:‘i stay with you for my children." a belief.

then, we delve deeper and it turns out there are several womenwith children whose husbands leave. and she’s put upwith infidelity after infidelity for 25 years,which is totally irrational, for a belief that hypnotizes herinto staying with a person so her childrenstill have a father. right? because the suffering of the clan, is that women had childrenwithout their fathers because they died...

and they put up with everything.still with me? so she reached consciousness and said:"my son is old enough to leave." "if you'd said your childwas 12 years old, ok, but he’s 23 or 24.”still with me? are you achieving consciousnessof what i’m saying? great!the transformation of all this means achieving that consciousness,which is what we're doing. a quantum vision, the understanding that everythingthat happens to us in life

is a resonance. in fact,this woman carries information of intense suffering from her clan, the suffering of the loss,in this case, of their husbands, not because they walked out, but because they diedor were killed in war... those were dramas. so, she put up with her husbandbecause it was in her information, and that was it.

but these are very kafkaesque stories. they’re not logical or rational. so we must understandthat everything around us in life, relationships, any story, is related to our informationand beliefs. that’s very clear, isn't it? be consciousthat we are continually projecting, i’ll summarizewhat i have explained, that our value judgementsare directly related to our beliefs

and we have to leavebehind the mental map and stop thinkingthat our mental map is the territory. in other words, stop thinkingthat what you think is so, that's it. ok? now... great, thanks. so, understandingthat unpleasant situations are often perfect for change. someone once saidthat comfort doesn't lead to progress;

what makes us progressreally is discomfort. is that clear? learn to observe different culturesas someone who serves. i’m going to tell you a story: i'm in houston, going to the airport. was it houston? i think it was. anyway. i’m in the taxi; yes, it was houston.

i'd taken a taxi to the airport. and... the driver was indian,but he was learning spanish because spanishis becoming quite important in the us. there are more than 50 millionspanish speakers, plus those who were born thereand speak it too. so this man had an ad on in spanish. and for the whole journey they kept repeating the same adover and over again.

it was about fridges. "fridges, i don't know what...”again and again. and i think: "it’s a given, isn't it?""the poor environment, the climate... "lady, buy your fridgebecause it’s very hot... ." and the children something or other... and fridges that aren't cleancan breed bacteria..." and that was it. "lady, buy your fridgeat pepitodelospalotes.com..." and it ends like that."because your fridge..."

and i’m thinking... and the guy was practicing:“what does ‘casa’ mean?” "house, house, it means house." at first, you’re taken abackand you think: “hang on, i feel like saying‘look man, get stuffed, ok? i got the message’." because they've been sellingthe fridge to you for half an hour. on and on, over and over...

but you see, in hispanic culture,if you don’t go on and on, nobody's going to buy from you; people buy out of boredomor hypnosis, or whatever. then you start to observe. it makes me laugh when people say: "ok, let's send an email,let's say, to a certain country...” i won't name namesso no one gets upset. a certain country.and i say: "when you word it like that...europeans are so restrained,

they won't understand it overthere.” they’re mexican, they say: “oh, right now..." it's very normal over there:"hey, can you take this?" and they say: "right now." two hours go by and you say:"are you taking this?" and they say: "yes, right away." oh that ‘right away’ in the end they take it.you say:

"hey, please take this i've got to..." and one day i asked:"is this normal?" and they told me: "yes, you've just got to round ‘em up,round ‘em up." sure, say that to someone hereand you’ll get a good slap. there’s nothing like travellingto achieve consciousness that every world is a world, and the only thing we shouldn’t dois try to change the world. i always say:

"don't change the world. you have to change yourselves,if we want to sell a message we have to change ourselves;or they won’t get it." that’s transformation. transformation is notthat i want you to change or i want you to understand me,because if you don't understand me, what do i have to changeto send you the information? the key is the heart. in sum:

did you know that our heart emits an electromagnetic fieldthat changes with the emotions? do you knowthat the heart has a system of neurons that can influence the brain? our thoughts, feelings, emotionsare projected into the universe from two positions, our minds or our hearts. when it is from the mind,we do it with emotional incoherence. the mind is always justified.still with me?

when we do it from the heart,it is direct. do you understandwhy i call you ‘sweethearts’? the heartmath institutetalks to us about global coherence. our collective emotionscan change the global impact. they study howthe earth's magnetic field affects the magnetic field of people. but they also say: "and how do the magnetic fieldsof hearts affect the earth?" the brain's code is:external is dangerous,

we must protect ourselves,we must control victimization, tendency towards chronic censorship. you have to work hard to get results. i can change people.frustration equals aggression. it leads to anger, and so on. the heart's code is: the universeis a fundamentally friendly place. the heart feels connectedto the mind and body to perform its function on earth. success is not pursued,

it is achieved as a resultof an attitude to life. it knows you can only change yourselfand how you think about others. the heart knowseverything is here for a reason. well, this summarizeswhat i was saying. keep quiet. yes? relax, meaning:don't take yourselves seriously, you don’t control so much,everything passes. be silent: stop listening to the mind,reach resonance.

and prayer is attitude.prayer is not asking. to pray, ladies and gentlemen,is to listen. so don't go away pleading:"please lord give me a husband." you won’t get one. because you are with the emotionthat you are without a husband. and the universe, which doesn't judge,will send you the lack. it’s not the same as saying: "lord, i know that in your holy glory there is somebodywho can accompany me in life.

let it be thy will." it's very different. because you give up your belief. that's true prayer.it's called listening. because you know you’ll get an answer. we always get an answer. what happens is that we askfrom our lack, and not from abundance,because we are from the same source. we are not from the same source.

we are part of the source. ok. feel. feel everything around you. feel everything around you.everything will speak to you, it will always speak to you.and learn. all the information you needis in your heart. connect. listen to others from your heart. talk heart to heart.

doctor paul pearsall tells us that the heart is a primarygenerator of info-energy. it launches forms of info-energythat regulates our organs and cells. it stores them in the cell memory. and radden tells us that the alignment of our thought,emotion and feeling produces the manifestationin the physical world. if my thoughts, my feelingsand my actions are coherent, my heart is coherent

and the quantum field receivesthe coherence. if i think green,feel blue and do yellow, the field says: "what should i give him?green, yellow, or a mix?" "it won't answer me." and it says: "work it out.we need to align ourselves." lies in our ability to feel that our choiceis already happening. in other words, that when you ask,

your request is already being heeded. only the belief that you won't get it, the belief in your fear, that what you ask for or feelis what you’ll get. when you believe something, you modify the quantum fieldby attracting it. when you do it from the heart,obviously, you change it, but you don't changewhat happens to you; it changes because you no longerwant to change anything or anyone.

you don't bind anyone. a heart that connectswith another heart always knows it is free. let your heart pray, put your decisions in the handsof the one who knows what's best for you.listen to your heart. this is prayer. we must give up the sense of controlover our lives. we cannot control our lives.

someone once said to me: "if aladdin, the genie of the lamp,appeared to grant you three wishes..." and i said:"i'd only ask for one." "which?" "i don’t want to wish. because desire is what binds meto suffering. i don’t want to wish.” give up the beliefthat you can control your life. life guides us and knows the paththat we do not know, never again will it deprive usof what we want to learn.

we must trustthat everything life knows for us will be communicated to us. it’s called distance, live every moment;don’t be confident, be certain that if you are coherent the answers will be the best onesfor you even if they are uncomfortable. this is true. the most uncomfortable situationsmake us grow,

because we live in a dual world, and occasionally we need a nudgeor two. ok? great! if we are in an office, for example, we can be competitiveor collaborative. if we are competitive, our heart’s magnetic fieldswill be lacking in coherence. if the fields in which we work closelywith someone are not coherent,

the system is not coherent. if we want to be really competentin our lives, if we want our institutionsto be competent in our lives, if we want our companyto be competent in our lives, it is essentialfor the components of the company to be in full magnetic coherencewith the heart. it would be unthinkable for someoneto stop doing a job saying: “i don't do this sort of work." can you imagine a cell saying

“the heart cell does that;he can get on with it"? our entire body functionsbecause it is coherent, and when we are most coherentwith ourselves, we are most coherent with our hearts, and our systems are more coherent,which is called overall health. and as small actions have big impacts, if we want to givethe earth overall health, each member needs to lookat the members around them even though they are of differentraces, colours and languages,

and feel that they are partof the same whole. and we have to livein coherence and peace. that’s the health that will allow usto transcend our lives, transcend the lives of others, and every coherent action of our lives will be a coherence for the system. in my life, i have had experiencesthat some might call painful. and one day i said to myself:"enric, you're silly."

and i looked up the etymologyof the word ‘silly’. and read; "the word ‘silly’ is derived from the greek selig,meaning blessed. and then i thanked god and said: “thank you, lord. now i understandwhy i'm still so silly.” what am i suggesting to you? be silly. because to be sillyis to be innocent,

and to be innocentyou should not see the evil in anyone, even if you knowthey want to hurt you, because then you will be blessed. the sixteenth-centurygerman mystic jakob bã¶hme said that thosewho seek the path of the heart are usually labelled ‘silly’, and noted that the path of loveof god is foolishness to the world but wisdom to the children of god. sincere laughter is the highestexpression of the heart's code.

it is one of the greatest giftsto humans as a way to transcend all suffering. and i’ll finish byurging you to be silly and crazy too.