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hello! hi! how are you? that's great! really great! well, good afternoon. before we start, as always, i have to thank you. i’ve come from america.

they use 'ustedes'... or 'vosotros'. i want to thank you,because by being here it's possible that on this stage, some quality recordingsare going to be made that they can put on youtubeas a way, for free obviously, to continue spreading the message. this is going to happen. because your contribution,the simple fact of being here means that we can cover the expenses.

ok? thanks so much for that. so, i want to thank my team. when i started, some...i'm talking about the institute, almost six years agothere were only a few of us. but now, the institute has more than25 people working directly, and, including the teaching staff,there are now a hundred of us. i want to it quite clearthat the institute is one big family

and we can even saythat there are a hundred families living thanks to the institute and of course the followingwe have around the world. well, for me, today's talk is transcendental. what's more, it's a turning point. so where did we have to do it? here at home, of course. we could have done it elsewhere,but it doesn't matter. at home.

why do i say this? as you know, as you all know, there's an evolution and lots of people follow mebecause we keep evolving. the first videowe put on the internet was recorded in around 2010. you’ll probably say,"only six years ago". but when you livewith a quantum consciousness, you look back to 2010,

and realise that it is really far back. really far back. so many things have happened. not onlywhat i myself have perceived, but all the people who are with me and have joined me on this journeyhave experienced it like this. the reason for these "vid-e-os",as they say in america, "vid-ios", as we say here, was to share.

just as now. to share. share a wayof seeing and understanding life. share a teaching. because i think and feelthat information is all of ours, it doesn't belong to anyone. to think that training,or information, or knowledge, belongs to somebodyis to live from a dual mentality. it is to live with a mentalityof separation.

only the ego dominates this and the ego is alwaysin competition, arguing, and it is always fighting,and it is always about being right. now, this vicissitude and this path i'm on... it all started... now, 2010 seems far away to me, this began in 1993 or 1994. what happened in 1993-1994?

a book fell into my handsthat changed my life. that book was called"a course in miracles". to the chagrin of many,this book has sold millions, millions. and the country where most copiesof "a course in miracles” is sold believe it or not, china. china is number one. there must be a good reasonfor that. so, when i found this book,

this book was an answerto a demand i had made to my consciousness. the word "consciousness" is an entirely spiritual word and when i say it,it replaces the word “god”. the word “god”has many dual connotations and it’s better not to use it,let’s use "consciousness” instead. if i accidentally use the word "god", take it to mean consciousness.

here, i am paraphrasingdavid r. hopkins. so, this book is a responseto something i asked consciousness for which, at that time, i called god. not an anthropomorphic god,but a universal consciousness. it came into my hands. it must have been one of the firstto reach spain, because it was published in spanishin 93-94. and when i read this book, i realised thatthe book had arrived that

would truly transform humanity. although the book itself says that the course of miraclesdoes not exist, that it is a teachingfor the twenty-fifth century. but, of course, for this teachingto catch on in the 25th century, we must first sow the seedsand lay the foundations for what will be so tomorrow. ok. it happened, i understood, i felt,that this had to reach a more tangible

level and then there came about something knownat the time as emotional healing. emotional healing worked on the principlesof "a course in miracles" without naming it. such elementaryor clear things for this teaching, which it is totally ‘advaita’,of nodes, such as:“your beliefs converge in the body." your body cannot get sick,you make it sick.

really, what prevents healingis your mind, not your body. matter has no capacityto think or feel, or do anything, it simplyreflects your emotional state. in fact,"a course in miracles" says, "for a thought to become flesh a belief is necessary." and such extraordinary things as: "the day you stop believing,you will see me." the day you stop believing me,you will see me.

and it also says, "dear son, you have nothing to learn because you already know it all. the thing is that you don't remember." and we are here to remember and unlearn what we think we are to achieve consciousnessof what we really are. moreover,there is a phrase that goes, "declare who you areand claim your inheritance."

now, this is a quantumconsciousness. it is a consciousness of nodes. and i wanted to address thatin a more tangible way. and we call it "emotional healing". emotional healingseeks to achieve consciousness that my emotions,my feelings, my thoughts, that many people think don’t go anywhere,well yes, they do go somewhere. they create a resonanceand mark what we call destiny.

around that time i developed all this and, after a short while,three or four years, i discovered the german medicineof dr hamer and studied it for a year, but i noticed it had a handicap. but, well, there it was. he saidthat there are emotional conflicts with biological meaning, and so on. but i kept searching.

and we developed something importantthat this medicine does not have, which is how to delve intothe unconscious, how to really be able to transformthat information to what, at the time,i called "change". i don't use the word "change”now i say "transform", and you will soon see why. and we started... i started studying neuro-linguisticprogramming techniques, ericksonian hypnosis,sophrology, etcetera.

we carried on studying,carried on evolving and from this sprang biodecoding, which was really inspiredby french and belgian schools. but, actually,that ended very soon because, as i will now explain, biodecoding – i want to make it very clearhere today, as it's being recorded, and i’m going to tellthe whole world — biodecoding has nothing to do with bioneuroemociã³n.

nothing. absolutely nothing. today's talk is called "bioneuroemociã³n:how to apply it to your life." but if i am to teach you how to applybioneuroemociã³n to your life, you have to think a certain way. this is really important. i’ll tell you now

that if youdo not change your consciousness what i tell you here today,this afternoon, is going to be worthless. worthless. biodecoding,as i will explain and develop, is very organic and very dual. we are in the "doing” phase. what i must doand what i mustn't do. after a couple of years,i realised that it wasn't like that,

and bioneuroemociã³n came about. bioneuroemociã³n coveredmore social and more general aspects, because we understood that healthis not the absence of disease or the absence of symptoms, health is a factor ...it is multifactorial. healthdepends on my quality of life, it depends on my ability,on access to work, my home, my diet, being able to study,having certain liberties...

therefore,several very important factors make upwhat represents my health. and the keyto acquiring this health that we all seekis called "emotional freedom". remember that phrase. emotional freedom. bioneuroemociã³nwas born with this meaning, but it requiresa process of adaptation that has taken two or three years.

in this process,there is a turning point and this change is tangible. and the changehas led to changes in the institute; this is normal. einstein said, "when you changehow you see and understand the world, when you change your thinkingabout things, you will change your universe." and then there is change,a process of renewal. and this is written in a book

that many learned peoplehave classed as a doctorate work, "the art of unlearning". in this book, "the art of unlearning", which is the essenceof bioneuroemociã³n, you see this transition to which we are heading. but it still has reminiscences. it still has dual problems, which i’ll describe shortly,

and we fully enter what i would call level two,if we had to give it a level. bioneuroemociã³n level twois where we are now and it is called livingin full consciousness. and we have nothing to dowith biology, it's there, the information is here, but,what i really want to get across, is that it's a quantum consciousness,

that each of you is emitting informationat a certain frequency that is shaping your realityfrom moment to moment. the vast majority of peopleare unaware of this. the vast majority are unawareto the extent that i am giving continuoustraining to my own teachers. continuous. because i say, "the standards of the institute

are these: either you live like thisor you are of no use to the project." but this does not meanthat the teachers have to do it. you'll see it's very straightforwardwhen i explain it, once i've finished. it’s very simple,there are four steps. but in these four steps there is an inner transformation, there is a way of living life that makes it very easy. so,

if your thinking is dual, if you thinkyou are separated from everything, you may love or hate this talk. who knows… but if you're here, i can assure you,that it's not by chance. i can assure you of that. in the universe there is no chance. it is even written. even the hairs on your headare numbered.

those of you who have them, of course,those who don't can't count anything. but, anyway, they are numbered. it’s a very clear analogy,as "a course in miracles” would say, nobody is anywhere by chance. and david r. hawkins,in a wonderful book whose prologuei had the honour of writing, and i've just written it, "the eye of the i", tells us that in the universethere are no victims,

it's impossible for victims to exist. victimhood, the victim,is merely a belief of duality, of believing that things can happento me outside of my consciousness, my acts, my thoughts and my actions. i want to make it clear today,as our starting point, that you are in resonancewith everything, that god breeds usand we flock together. or rather, god creates usand we flock together. and everything around usforms part of us.

not only does it form part of us,but it talks about us. so, if i’m here today,and there are six hundred people here, these six hundred peopleare talking about me. when i was in mexico city,there were 1,200 people and i was giving a seminar,a course, for a day and a half, and they were all quiet. it was a miracle. then they told me that outside,in the hotel lobby, there were dozens of people cryingbecause they could not get in

i just looked and said, "lord, you know what you are doing. thy will be done." so this also talks about me. now, resonance, as you can imagine, when someone speaks and resonates there are people on the same frequency or wavelength, as they say,and there are people who aren’t. now that i've put you in context

we can get stuck in. bioneuroemociã³nis a philosophy of life that seeks personal well-being. when we talk about personal well-being we’re not talkingabout physical well-being per se. true well-beingis obtained from inner peace, from living in presence,in the state of being. everything else is extra. we don't have to do anything.

the ego always lies in doing,in worrying, in mulling over trivial things. it forces us to live in a stateof anxiety, depression, guilt, and, as gautam and other luminarieswould say, "the big problem of humanity, the cause of all the barbarities that we experience is ignorance.” we need to wake up. we need to reach consciousness

that, actually, there is nothing we do that does not have its resonance. therefore, bioneuroemociã³n is a way of seeingand understanding life. in the situation where we are now, i ask everybody working with me to have an 'advaita' mentality. the advaita mentalityis what we are going to explain today, and where we apply bioneuroemociã³nand how we apply bioneuroemociã³n.

i repeat, it is a way of seeingand understanding life. bioneuroemociã³n, in the current state, is for everyone. but not everyonecan apply bioneuroemociã³n. because the ego complains. it's always complaining, but it does not want to changeor be changed. the ego does not want to change. all the ego wantsis to be right and for you to change.

for the other to change. and that's our egoicand dual dialogue. they make me feel guilty. they make me sick. if it weren't for what you do,i'd be happy. if you really loved me,you’d do what i like. right?you all know this dialogue? bioneuroemociã³n, i repeat, is a method not a therapy.

i'm tired of saying it,but i won't give up. it is not a therapy; it's a method at the service of of everybody. of all the sciences. at the service of health,at the service of education, at the service of architecture and at the service of the housewife,to name but a few. it is at the service of the world. bioneuroemociã³n can be integrated intoany scientific discipline.

bioneuroemociã³nis not intended to be a science. in any event, it would bethe science of spirituality. david r. hawkins says in his books, “how is it possiblefor science to forget things as important as passion, emotion and feeling for beauty, the feeling of something higher? how can we remove thisfrom the equation of life?" this is newtonianor dualistic science,

which works very well. but there’s another science,called quantum physics, where, to the chagrin of many, the observer always appears.the observer is consciousness. so,i'm going to talk about a physicist who explains to us,and i'll say his name now, even...a buddhist teacher talks - i can’t rememberthe teacher's name - about him, it's dr. robert lanza,in "biocentrism".

but there are others. dr. bruce rosenblum,in "quantum enigma", science encounters consciousness. in the end, it is clearthat there is a dual vision of things and it's called "matter”. and there’s a spiritual visionof things and it’s called "energy”. and these things are not separate,although they want to separate them. although they want to separate them.they are not separate.

i always say the same thing, if you get sick,look for a good doctor. they can be very good at 2+2=4, but, if possible,let them have a 2+2=5 consciousness. i, for example,am surrounded by therapists and they all think like this. for example,my osteopath is here today. he was invited. he's french, of course,they’re the best in the world at it.

i won't say it very loudly,he’ll get a big head. i've got an acupuncturist,a guy who was an architect, he had cancer and it changed his life. he was enlightened, as they say. and at the age of thirty-somethinghe went to china, and six months later he was speaking chinese. he said to me, "i was speakingchinese as if i was speaking catalan. i must have been chinesein another life, for sure." and his teacherrealised what he had before him

and he taught him thingshe didn't teach the others, because he realised who he was. i’m also blessedby this acupuncturist. and i havean anthroposophical doctor. and i have a masseuse who,when i don't feel too good, comes to my houseand gives me these amazing massages, and i feel great afterwards. and when my head hurtsi take a painkiller. everything’s perfect.

everything's good. some people thinkthat taking medicines is unspiritual. but they have an ailment. i'd like to see these peoplewho don't take medicines because it is not spiritual, if they break a legor have an accident and their life depends on it. they'd better praythat they happen upon a good doctor.

it's as simple as that. what do i mean by all of this? we are in favour of everybody. we don't think that anything or anyone is redundant.shadows are as necessary as light. otherwise,how would we gain a perspective? duality,the world in which we live, the duality is:"this is good and this is bad." and this is the big mistake.

this is the cause of all illness: believing that some things are goodand others are bad. in the end, we will understandthat everything is perfect. it’s called integration. and we will understandthat the cause of this polarity, this positioning, is our divided mind, which is trappedin a collective hypnosis, where we believe that some thingsare good and others are bad. this is why all the great teachers,like buddha...

buddha never named god. because buddha was enlightened. and buddha knewthat if he put a name to god, the ego would automatically appearand ask, “what is god?” and then the egowould give us terms and definitions. and the moment we walkinto the trap of terms and symbols and definitions,we get trapped in the dream. "a course in miracles”is not a trilogy,

and you don't have to believe in"a course in miracles”. it's an application;you have to apply the principles. bioneuroemociã³nfollows the same line. but, bioneuroemocion is also based on scientific principlesthat have always been there, only before it was the mystics saying it. the true spiritual teacher,the real mystic, does not tell his discipleswhat to do.

the true spiritual teacheroffers his wisdom and that's all. and each one doeswhat they want with it. good. it’s all becoming clear, isn't it? so where does it reveal its influence? in our method, paraphrasing "a course in miracles"and other teachers, what really forces us to livein pain, suffering and addiction, is thinking that

what we perceive is true. this is the big mistake. i'd even saythe only mistake we commit: believing that our perceptionis the truth. and when we believethat our perception is the truth the need automatically arisesto defend it. and when the need arisesto defend it, what we call complementarityautomatically arises so, we don't claim

to have discovered anything. the only thing, i enric corbera, am doing is, as they say in america,acting as spokesperson, acting as a messengerof ancestral truths. and god only knows why a thousandpeople have congregated before me, nobody was more surprised than me. but i accept it. i’m really very shy, although i don't look it.

i don't talk a lot:only insofar as is necessary... achieve consciousness. the first step i want you to takeand if you don't want to do it, you shouldn't have come, is that what you think you seeis a lie. and when you start like thisyou will start to become enlightened. when a person starts to realisethat what they are seeing is not the truth,but rather an interpretation, and that this interpretationis based on beliefs,

on taboos, on prejudices, and on all the informationwe receive from ancestral congeners, they realise that lifehas been completely hijacked. and i live, think, feel, sufferand get sick because of lies, that's the truth. try it out. and you’ll see. try it, try it. this is what we teach. the people who visit our clinic,

visit us for all sorts of things. the other day, for example,i was told, "enric, this weekthe blinds in my dining room got stuck twice." that's a reason for a visit. this person knows that somethingis happening in their life it's not just something trivial. nothing happens just because. or because it's old.

there's meaning in it. we need to interpretwhat is happening to us, what our unconscious is saying. so, i asked herabout the context of the situation and things started coming out... little things like she wantedto do someone and she didn't. because there were all sorts ofprejudices, beliefs, and so on. and she reached consciousnessof that and what she was going throughat that point in time

when she was doing other thingslike skype. there was a conflict of image. that resonated in a story. or someone who came and said, "enric, this week i've puncturedthe same wheel of my car twice. "is it a coincidence?” "no way. where were you going?" interestingly, he was going tothe same place both times. and he realisedhe didn't want to go.

that it turned his stomach to go. and he said,"for god's sake, why am i even going?" and the quantum field said,“don't worry, son.” boom! flat tyre. sorted! problem solved. it's as easy as that. or this person who works with me,where i work. and when i say,“hey, what’s this?” everybody looks up

and my son comes and says, “what's going on? back again, dad?interrupting people?" "no, not at all,they’re reaching consciousness." and, in the end,that's what it's all about. then there was this onewho wore flip flops because he had a broken toe. and the guy had come withsome papers for me to sign. and i look at him and say... and he goes...

that’s how it happens. and i ask his permission of course."don't you want to know...?" and he says, "okay...” "i came for you to sign." automatically everybody stops all of a sudden. the girl with headphoneson takes them off, some go off to letthe girls in reception know. and everybody's quietbecause it's all part of it,

and then i ask, "where did you break it?” do you think a toe breaksin a place by chance? no, right? he says, “on the beach.”"oh." "and who was on the beach with you?" and he says, "my girlfriend."ok. and i say, “and who else?” and he says, "my mum and dad."

in that order. mum, dad. and i say, “oh great.and how did it happen?” and he says, "i hit it on a stone." bad luck. and i said, "well, the symbolismof the toe is collateral, and the foot is the mother." and he says, "oh."

“so going to the beachand breaking your foot must have been a seed moment. it must have a moment of stress. a moment that must also be fedby another moment, and that one by another moment and so on." it’s a discovery by william braud,existential psychologist. and i say,“what happened before the beach?” and he says,"yes, i remember, i was very nervous." and i say,"and what was the stress about?"

he says, "i was thinking, what if my mumdoesn't like my girlfriend." sure, mothers... you know, mothers are mothers. another belief that we need to change. mothers are mothers, end of. and i say,"but to make you nervous, nervous, about whether your motheris going to like your girlfriend

there must have been another moment with your mother, girlfriend and you. and it must have been another girl." and he says,“yes, of course. my mother didn't like anything." “and what was it that she didn’tlike about your girlfriend? " "because she was always on at me,always asking me things, always very on top of me." "so, like your mother, right?"

and he says, "yes." they were rivals. "and how did it go with this one?" "she liked her, you know why? because she could control her." and since this has happened to you several times; the informationrepeats itself over and over; when there's a solution, which is: "ah, at last my motherlikes my girlfriend",

he breaks his toe,which is a resolution phase. we spent ten minutes on it. "get back to work now", i said,"the show's over, carry on." as simple as that; that fast. but we need to reach consciousness, which is what the peoplewho work with me do. realise that things don't happenby chance. it's informationthat is expressed in my life and my biology.

and do you know whyit is expressed in my biology? because we think that we are a body. if we thought that we were a wall,we would see as if we were a wall, but because we think we’re a bodywe see ourselves in the body. so we can't say,"it's my mother's fault." we have to say, "why am i allowing my mother to have an opinionon the woman i like?” but to do this ridiculous thingthere must be a resonance.

and that comes from his motherhe had a mother, because it’s like this, who was really overcontrolling,overpossessive. and i asked him, “what’s your girlfriend's mum like?" she says, “like mine.” that’s what we teach, to observe. not to judge. to understand, as we’ll explain now.

so,to go back to what i was saying, biodecoding has a dual vision. if you don't know whata dual vision is, it's this: believing that you and i are separate. bioneuroemociã³nhas a non-dual vision. which meansthat i am part of you. not in body, but in the energythat keeps us all together and keeps us correlatedin this resonance. biodecoding is linear.

what is a linear concept? for example, perception is linear. vision is non-linear. time is linear,timeless things are not linear. do you understand? there is no time. matter is linear. energy is not linear. synchronicity

can only be understoodfrom a non-linear understanding. in other words, linearity is:i believe in the past, in the present and in the future. and non-linearity is:everything is timeless. everything is present, everything is an infinityof possibilities. the linear concept is: to heal myself, for example,

i have to do this, this and this. and from a non-linear understanding,we do nothing to heal ourselves. you have infinite possibilities. an infinite number. from the operation going well, to reaching consciousnessof why things happen to you. the non-linear concept is realising that i did not break my toebecause of bad luck or by breaking a leg, literally.

no. but because... it all has meaning in the universe. and if you, as hawkins says,could realise just how much we are creating our reality and repeating thingsover and over again because we are asleepand we think we have bad karma, and god has sent us a cross to bearand it's so heavy, or i've got bad luckbecause i stepped on cat shit,

get ready. it's no wonder you are afraid. it's no wonderthat you believe in images. it's no wonderthat you believe in individuals. it's no wonderthat you believe in energy vortexes. it's no wonderthat you believe in sacred temples. for all this is dual. it is believing that something external to me can love or hurt me.

and from a non-linear understanding there is nothing external to methat i do not attract or experience. and this is what bioneuroemociã³nteaches us. to be emotional adults. to be responsiblefor our thoughts and actions. this is what it teaches us. biodecoding is very biological. it is centred on biology. we are very humanisticas i’ve already explained.

the day we talked about the familyor transgenerational tree as it is also known... the people who really startedtalking about it in 1953... josephine hilgard presentedthe anniversary syndrome in a psychiatry journal, explaining the correlation of datesabsorbed by the unconsciousness. it makes you repeat thingson certain dates. when we started,and i started the family tree, obviously,first i thought it was right,

and then i thought i'd made a mistake and then everything was fine. because then peoplehave dual thinking, which is the next… which was the big mistakeof psychoanalysis. psychoanalysis,when it was discovered, everybody said,"what a great discovery." and in the end, people were saying, "how is it my fault thatmy father was an asshole?"

"how is it my faultthat my grandfather was a drunk?" take note, this is dual thinking. it’s dual. of course, how is it my fault that eve was a slutand adam was an idiot? now that’s how we’re going to end up. we're back at the beginning, right? so then i realised that we hadto change something slowly,

because people would say to me, "enric, i'm just like my father.what does that mean?" and i'd say,"that you're just like your father." "enric, look at my tree, please,what do you think?” "very nice, here's your tree back." "is that it?""and what do you want me to say?" it's a code, give me a sign. give me information and we’ll see. but even then, another one appeared.

"enric, i've done... what do i need to doto get rid of these toxic programmes?" so we did things like mournings, cards. and people would say to me, "enric, i've done 25 mourningsand the problem hasn't gone away." i say, “that’s not good then.” let's continue doing,what do i have to do? so what do i have to doto change all this?

even in group practices,in group visits, i ignored the tree, and i began to lay the foundationsof what i'm explaining now. and then i referenced,looked for what was in the tree. we were no longertalking about transgenerational or family trees. we talked about family resonances. family resonances. we carry information.

we are a partthat contains the whole. in this case, a part containingthe whole family unconscious. so, i carry my information. and my own level of consciousness bears no relation to when i was born;i come with it, it leads me to live outexperiences in this life. it’s a choice by my spirit. when someone asks me, "why does my sister get all the boysand i don't get any?"

i say, “now let's see,what have you come to transcend?" so, resonance. and above all, as i’ll mention later, we don’t want to change a thingbecause we can't change a thing. let’s see. from a conscious level, what i’m saying makes no sense. from a level of dual consciousness,it makes no sense. from a higher, holistic,integral level of consciousness,

what i say doesn't needto be understood, obviously. and that's what many people tell me. i spent six hours in mexicosigning over three days. and people of all social classescame and said, "enric, what you say is logical,” obviously, it's resonance. obviously, for the dual world... for example, a miracle. a miracle cannot be understoodfrom a dual world.

by contrast, from the non-linearworld a miracle does nothing. it undoes. it undoes beliefs. it undoes values. you see life another way. and then it happens, what medicine calls"spontaneous remission". there is a simple film,but it’s a story called "miracles from heaven".

well, i love coming acrossweird films, as you know. and besides, as i havea reason for everything, so... anyway. a few days ago i was there,today i’m here, tomorrow and the day after, elsewhere,that's how i roll. because we live in the present. well, in "miracles from heaven",there's a girl who's sick and the doctors don't knowwhat to do. basically, her stomach

works one way the intestine another, and it's all a big mess. and she has so long to live... until she has this accident, she comes out of her body, and enters a level of consciousnessand they say she's going to be cured. and she starts to be cured. and she says to the doctor,“what happened?” and he tells her,"we call it spontaneous remission."

from a dual, linear understanding, we cannot understand this. from a non-dual,non-linear understanding, from a quantum consciousness, we don't need to understand it,it’s obvious. i've had many peoplewith spontaneous remissions and many who have not. but i would not dare tell the ones who havehat they were spiritually healed

and those who have notthat they were not healed. because in the end,we, absolutely all of us, have to leave this world. thank god. because sometimes here, we have to put upwith the unimaginable. biodecodingseeks behavioural solutions: “what do i have to do?”,“what do i not have to do?” while bioneuroemociã³nonly looks for one thing:

to expand the consciousness. that's all. and, ultimately, it seeks health and what we are looking foris to live a different way. bioneuroemociã³n appears when we leave behindthe field of physical health and realise that well-beinginfluences all social levels. as i explained, part of our studies come from germannew medicine.

as i said,i trained in this for a while. it turns out,the truth is that i was sick, i had a serious illness. i was studying"a course in miracles”, that's where it all came from. and when i say serious,for medicine, it is serious. do you understand what i’m saying?serious. and... i applied the principlesof "a course in miracles"

and i met a doctor who was putin prison for following hamer. fun stuff that happensin a free world. and he helped me a lot. a lot. to understand lots of things. so i’ll always be grateful to him. i’ll always be grateful to him. this doesn’t mean that i agree. we disagree with mr hamer

on many things. many things. one, for example, is his understanding of medicationand non-medication. here, not only are wein disagreement with him. the first thing i say is,if you're sick, go to the doctor, get a good diagnosisand take what you have to take and get the treatment you want. we take advantage of biological sense,

we take advantage of the stagesof the disease, the whole embryonic-layer thing. i think this is a great discovery, but obviously they run into problemswith access to the unconscious, they are very dual. to the point that they base themselveson the fact that if you have cancer it’s because you're fightingwith your sister or whoever; if your sister doesn't decide to agreewith you, then sorry. there's nothing more we can do,we need to do group therapy.

maybe the guy wants you to dieto collect the inheritance. do you get me? in fact,you have to change. there are several anecdotes,but i’m not going to tell any, because i don't know if they’re true. but really there are things i do know because they've happened to me. so there's a part to understand how our consciousnessis reflected in the body,

because it's also written in"a course in miracles". and it says, "your beliefs converge in the body that you have made your home." the fact that nothing is leftto chance in the universe, the fact that you break a finger or a toe, or anything else, is not accidental,there is information. there is a code, it's out there.

and we use it. but that’s only a partof bioneuroemociã³n, that we work with in health aspects. i’ve already told a few examples, i have spoken about someone who couldn't pull the blind up. or whose tyre got a puncture i’ll tell you more. i’ll tell you some more later,

about someonewho gets really nervous about feeding the cat in the morning. and what we uncovered. i want you to remember this subtlety. the unconscious is subtle on levels that we cannot imagine. and what i want to do here todayis for you to reach consciousness that even the personsitting next to you did not sit there by chance.

and if they are next to youand their feet smell, and you are bothered by the factthat their feet smell, then this is about you. it’s not bad luck that you ended upsitting next to the dirty pig. go ahead, laugh! now everybody look at the personnext to them. no, no, i make this joke,but it's not a joke. that’s how far it goes. at home nobody says to me,

"this happened to me,what does it mean?" don't worry, don't get nervous. for example, there's a fundamental difference between biodecodingand bioneuroemocion. interestingly,two people very close to me have had people break inor try to break in their house. and you're going to ask me. well, there’s no need for youto ask me.

i’m going to tell you. biodecoding would say, "house, house, house, house, house, uterus. uterus is house. heart is home. so, if it’s the uterus,it could be sexual or about children, etc." no, i call that "mental crap".

and we end up where we end up. bioneuroemociã³nasks the following question: "what is the environmentreigning in this house before...?" are you with me? easy, isn't it? "what is the emotional environmentexperienced in this house? you are emitting informationin the quantum field, and the boss,who’s there receiving the information, gives solutions."

this is the first question. and at this point, think. everyone think. what happens in the family nestfor someone to come into the house? it’s a violation of privacy. who, in the home,is not being consistent with certain members of the family? i’m making you think, aren't i? i don't intend to do anything else.

this is bioneuroemocion. it's called: “self-indagation". and this is what i’m going to offeryou today. the ability to develop the skillof self-indagation, which you must dowithout acting the victim. without guilt. this is fundamental. understanding that what happens to us is not to annoy us.

or piss us off. it is an act of lovefrom the consciousness that is warning usthat we aren't coherent. is this clear? you can say yes or no. so, we always say to the ones doing the consulting,our clients, please, what we do is not a substitute for a treatment

nor do we expect people to get cured. do your treatments,achieve consciousness. so that you can see just how muchof what i’m explaining is true, to see that it's true,you only need to see the resonance. so the other day,a person called who has a head tumour and only has a few weeks to live. and while in hospitalshe asks the doctors, i think they were two female doctors, if she could go and see enric corbera.

and it turns out that they knew of me,the crazy man, that's me. and they said,"well, ok then. we’ll arrange it all so you can go." she’s on medication. we are talking about someoneon a lot of medication. "we’ll put you in an ambulanceso you can go and see him. you’ll have to pay for the ambulance. the public purse can't afford to payfor an ambulance to go and see enric corbera.

but we understandand we’ll do what we can for you to go and see enric corbera." and she came, in the ambulance. they took her out on a stretcher. and she left delighted. and she said to me,“i’ll be back next month.” “ok. see you then.” i have to teach her another wayof seeing things. i have to teach her

that where there was old hatred,there can be new love. i have to accompany herin changing her perception. i have to help her to changeher consciousness. i have to help herto stop judging herself, to stop her judging others and to stop feeling likeshe's the victim of the situation. i know what i have to do. then, it won't be up to mewhether her body stays or goes.

dual questions from people we’ve had to nip in the bud. these are real-life examples. "none of my partnerswant commitment." a young woman none of whose partnerswant commitment. "i know that their mothersare very protective. what do i have to do?” “i don't know, kill their mothers." "and what do you want me to say?""kill the mothers, i don't know."

i've never taught this,but they see it like that. another one who tells me, "my mother wanted to abort me,should i do something?" "well no, love your mother,what do you want me to say?" another one, "my husband’s been unfaithful to me,should i leave him?” "i've no idea, maybe you like it.” "ask why you're still with a guywho's cheating on you. don't keep blaming the other."

do you see? that's how we work. this is a good one. this one was to cheer me up in mexico. in the end, after a day and a half. after standing there for more thantwelve hours talking and explaining duality,projection and all this stuff, she comes out says... i say,"i hope this won't depress me."

"i've got rheumatoid arthritis."every april i have a relapse." "what happens in april?""my partner leaves me." my partner leaves me; relapse. "and it always coincideswith my partner leaving me. i’m better now becausehe takes care of me and i feel loved." the person who laughedis the only one who got it. you others haven't got it at all. but the one who laughed...carry on laughing. she's the one who got it.

because it’s a dual question. listen, my happinessdepends on someone loving me. dual, dual, totally dual. for something, in april... i didn't want to know morebecause i got a bit depressed. i'm going to commit suicidefor a bit, i’ll be back. after spending ages there... well, it was to cheer me up. now ‘a course in miracles’ saysthat a good teacher

repeats the lessonas many times as needed. i remembered that and said, “don't worry, i’ll repeat the lesson." well, now, pay close attention. she did make a changeand the guy stayed, he didn't leave in apriland there was no relapse. but she doesn't ask,"what am i projecting on to him? what is he reflecting in me?what do i have to learn?" the questions are still dual.

do you get what i'm trying to say? well, do you want to start applyingneuroemocion to your life? don’t shout too loud, eh? never talk about the other. never. it's hard isn't it? you have to get used to it. and it comes from the other too,but we’re going to leave them alone. it's hard.

“so i can't talk about my husband?" "no." "or my wife?""no." "what about my mother?""even less." talk about yourself in relation to the other and ask yourself, "why am i hereputting up with this situation?" for example. for example, a visit yesterday.

from an engineer. i don't want to say too much. he travels a lot. and he comes to the clinicbecause he has eczema in different parts of the body. and i ask since when. i was looking for the scenarioand we didn't get further. the guy was giving dual answers. you see,one of the big problems in the world

is that humanshave developed the ability to speak in signs. we are so used to speaking in signs that it seems like normal language. i’ll expand on that later. and people are talking in signs. and saying things.they talk a lot and say nothing. "how's it going with your husband?""things are a bit cool.” now i’m from jupiter,

like the mind, of course, and i say, "things are a bit cool.” or another one who asks, "how's your relationship with thingy?""distant." and i think, "well, maybe he's gone to the moon,i don't know." "and what about you..?why did you get divorced? "the love has died."for god's sake. come on.

she got this one too. "the love has died." ok, i get that something ended,but my question is: "what happened for the love to end?” another one says to me,"oh, i was bored." and i say,“what did you do to get bored?" it took us 40 minutes and do youknow where the boredom came from? that he didn't smack her bum. why didn’t she start there?

"i left my husbandbecause he didn't smack my bum." but no, "i was bored.” "i was bored"...that's how human beings speak, "i was bored". of course, and you say,"bored, bored, bored..." of course, then we all actlike we understand. and then you go. what do they want? we make our mental map,

and since you're also boredwith your wife you say,“it must be the same thing.” and then people don't get each other. "it's just that i thought...""i meant..." "ohhh, you should have been clearer." two girls were chatting today: "i spoke to maruja",as in, the girl was called maruja, "and she said...",something or other, "to be honest,i don't know what she was on about."

i listened and thought,"look, resonance." i was following them like this. no... i wasn't bothered aboutwhat they were saying, it was because they didn't have a cluewhat the friend had said to them. they were clarifying. interpreting. what could it be? carry on thinking.

when humans are asked a question, in bioneuroemocion we saya very simple phrase, "i don't want you to talkbecause i want to listen to you.” stop with the blah blah blahstop justifying yourself, stop with the preambles,so you understand me, because otherwise you contaminate meand we’ll end up nowhere at all. have i explained myself? so, the first step we take is this. energy is neither creatednor destroyed, but transformed.

now, this is a developmentof antoine lavoisier's definition. he said that energyis neither created nor destroyed, but transformed. however, when we get intothe relativistic concept, we're no longer talking aboutthe material concept, but about the matter-energy package and the concept of quantum physics,and information. everything clear? information is neither creatednor destroyed, but transformed.

all the informationwe get from our ancestors is inside us. all of it. some will then develop one partand others another. this depends on the consciousnessof each of us and the spiritual planeof the individual. but it goes like this. if energy or informationis neither created nor destroyed, it exists forever.

it is always there. it has no beginning or end. it is transformed. so, what we do here is, the person has a processof transformation with what they're going through,on another level of consciousness. a higher level of consciousness,a non-dual level of consciousness, where the person understands that the person technicallyhurting them

isn't there by chance or by bad luck firstly, it's because you chose it, and secondly, ascarl gustav jung would say, "the victim, normally,is the real victimiser, and the perpetrator, the victim." because i can slap you once, but if i slap you twice, you startto have the problem. and in the end, i think you like it. note.

it’s all resonance. and i'm going to talk about it. it's all the application of quantumphysics, quantum consciousness. and although there are somequantum physicists who don't agree, there are many more that do,and that's what we base ourselves on. and as bruce rosenblum andfred kuttner, his collaborator, say... they say that when the expertscannot agree, you can choose the expert you want. i choose the one i want,

and that's it,because this guy says so. there's a very interesting book: “quantum enigma.physics encounters consciousness. right. so, as i was saying, bioneuroemocion attempts to transcend informationfrom our families to expand our consciousness by understanding our life experiences.

when we say "understanding", please note that it is equivalent to "compassion". compassion arises when i understand thatthere are no victims or perpetrators, but a kind of theatre where two people find themselves to transcendinformation of a low level of consciousnessto a higher level of consciousness.

i'm not saying you have to agree,i couldn't care less. i don't know if i'm explaining myself, but it's not me saying this,lots of people say it. - the basic requirement...-(a mobile rings) if it’s urgent you can answer it. if it’s urgent...it might be urgent. i hope it's not urgent. but if it is urgent,there’ll be a reason for it. so anyway, who called you?

because you might thinkit was a coincidence. whose phone rang?i won’t throw you out of the room. i’m saying it to make you think. first, they forgot, unless they wereexpecting something important. now, take your time,look at who called you and, when they called,what they wanted to tell you. and you’ll start to seehow many answers you have. it's that easy! now then.

your perceptionis always an interpretation. if we assume... if you come to my clinic, and you are absolutely convincedthat your truth is your truth, i’ll say,"have a nice life! goodbye!" everybody takes every moment,every situation of their life, and we have the powerto decide how to live it. and this powerdetermines my next moment. when we livewith an open consciousness,

that we're not in the wrong place, that we're not in a wrong place, everything that happens to mei should be thankful for because i have the chance to transcendsomething that i don't see. we are applying bioneuroemocion,from the very start. we are always projecting ourselves,always resonating, what we like bestand bothers us most is in our psycheand we project it on to others. the guy i was talking about,this engineer,

i hadn't finished,i was talking about his eczema. in the end, as he was sayingnothing, i explained it to him. becausewhen one has a quantum consciousness, when one has an innocent mind, when one is connectedto the quantum field, you don't have to ask, you see. you see what there is to see. so, i started explaininghis entire story to him

and he just said, "yes, yes." "and what bothers you most?" his trips were to an eastern country. "what most...?"i won't say the country. because it’s a perception. "what most bothers youabout these people?” "they're liars. they're all liars." and he said it like it was the absolute truth.

and i asked,"has anybody been to this country?" and a lot of hands went up. "and what do you say?" "i've never seen a liar." and the guy said, "well, they’re liars." "this lie is in your tree.where does it resonate?" he looks shocked and says, "my parents always lived togetherand they didn't love each other."

"a lie, you see?" and a dirty, rotten one. and i say, "but your parents haven’t learned thatfrom innate knowledge. tell me about your mother's parents." she says, "my grandparents were marriedand they each had somebody else." "lie."

i say, "are you married?"she says, "no." "why? do you know why? because you're in the solutionof not lying. so as not to lie, you don’t marry." "a good-looking guy like you,” i say. and he also had eczemain relation to sexual conflicts. do you follow? it’s all correlated,there's meaning in everything. i was explaining projectionand i remembered the example.

they were liars. i've been in that country a fewtimes and i swear i could say anythingabout these people except that they’re liars. "well, i’ve got lots of experience." "your projection." therefore, if you cannotquestion your projection you're going nowhere. is that clear?

i’m asking if it's clear,only that, ok? i’m not asking if you agree. this is another exampleof a person who i love. and i’ll be straight: it sucks that somebodywho knows so much about me says what they say. but it sucks with a lot of love, ok? i still love her a lotbecause she's a great teacher for me. i was chattingwith a guy from the office.

when she came in the officeand david said, "hey dad, what are you doing?" "don't worry, i'm going to work,i’m not going to say anything." and i say to a girl, "how did it go with your motherand your boyfriend?" the story that i didn't finish. and i see out of the corner of my eyethat this girl does something strange. there’s this thing callednon-verbal language, which i’m very aware of.

because the body talks,the body does speak the truth. tongue, lies. body, truth. the tongue always lies. all lies. because it's all half truths. so i say to her, "what were you thinking?"what thought has come to you?" and she says,

"a thought has come to meor an image of a friend. we were out partying andshe dumped her boyfriend and i thought ‘finally,she's dumped herboyfriend'." "finally, she's dumped her boyfriend." really just for her to apply it. "she caught him kissinganother girl at a party." good. and i go on, "anything else? where's the stress? because you, with your friend,find the boyfriend kissing a girl...

it’s not your boyfriend. but he's done you a..." and i ask her, "what stress are you going through?" i want you to realise one thing. the conscious thinks your reaction is for what you're seeing,i want you to understand this. believe that: "oh, brilliant, my friend, finally.

you've finally realisedthat this guy's a moron." "it’s brilliant."that's not the truth. there's something else. i say, “where's the stressprior to this situation?” "it's my mum; yesterday washer birthday and i wasn’t with her." i say, “where is your mother?” she says, “in america”. i won't say the country; in america. "but if you're in spain,how can you be with your mother?"

since i’m from jupiter...i say, “you can’t be with your mother."well, if you get on a plane..." “why's that?" "well, if you were with her?what would happen?” listen to the answer,it's one of those that gives you hope. she says,"she'd force me to go and see her. she makes me feel guilty." i go quiet. and then i continue my reasoning.

so, if when you... just how look at how subtlebioneuroemocion is. if, when you see your friend catching her boyfriend kissing another girl... you think of your mother, the conclusion is that your motherand hers are the same. and she says,"absolutely, both controllers." so,the conflict is not the boyfriend. the conflict is not the couple.

the resonance is not the scene. the unconscious projects itselfin ways that we need to be very alertand very awake to see. it’s called self-indagation. and she reached consciousness that,actually, she projects that what happensto her friend happens because of her mother, because this happens to her with hers. that's how the unconscious works.

the unconscious does not distinguishbetween john and johnny. it does not distinguish. the unconscious does not distinguishyour boss from your father. the unconscious is not dual. it’s all one. and it's very simple. but we could squeezea lot more out of this. take note. "she'd force me to go and see her.”

wow, right? what do you mean ‘force you to go’? why would you force yourself?why do you project this obligation? and this is the big trap of society. we believe that we have to do thingswe don't want or have the desire to. and this is the big lie. going back to the engineerand his eczema, in the end, i learned that the eczema started when he wentto see his parents

before leavingfor the country in question. and i ask him a very simple question: "did you want to goand see your mother and father?" first i asked him, "why go and see your mother?""because i’m her son." we were like this for 10 minutes. "because i'm her son,because she's my mother..." things like this."because they’re my parents." "because i'm going on a trip."

"why go and see your mother?",i answer. and he didn’t answer me. "do you want to see your mother?""no." "so why do you go?" and, as you can understand, for the unconscious,and for me, obviously, we couldn't give a hoot,or two, or three, or four, whether he goes to see his mother. but eczemais a conflict of separation.

and it appears becausehe leaves the country and he leaves total bores:his parents. for his perception, it’s clear. this is reaching consciousness. look, want to see your parents?so go. to the young woman, i would say, "look, if your mother is in americaand you’re here, call her, 'hey mum! happy birthday!i'm with you, you know i love you.

thanks for everything.'" because, for the unconscious your partner may be in conchinchina, but when you phone themthey're stuck to your ear. because, for the unconsciousspace-time doesn't exist. you can go to pluto,but if you take your problems... your problems are the same on plutoas they are on earth. because the unconscious is non-dual,it is timeless. i am showing you how it works,i promised you i'd show you.

and then there's this:"you make me feel guilty." well, here we could... here there's room to sharpen thepencil until there’s no pencil left. we're talking massive ego here,with duality... you make me feel guilty. look, someone once said, "a spiritual being..." david r. hawkins says, "a mystic doesn't want praise,but neither does he want blame."

the game of blameis the game of the ego. whoever makes you feel guiltywants to manipulate you. whoever makes you feel guiltywants to dominate you. and they use a very serious wordcalled “love”. and "love" is to trap you. "i want you to do" the thing that i’d like you to do, and if you don't, you're selfish." when i am the selfish one

for not letting you do what you want. i am the selfish one, when i demandthat you do what i want you to do. and i make you feel guiltyfor dominating your will. but we can go further,we can we stay here or transcend this informationand ask, "why do i havethis rejection of my mother?" "what am i projecting i onto my mother this is compassion. this is understanding that the otheris reflecting something in you

that you would not otherwise see. and when you understandthat your mother, for example, carries informationthat she inherited from her own, and that your motherdoesn't know any better. then, you don't even need to forgive. it’s called compassion. and compassion takes youto a state of understanding and to a state of inner peace that frees you from all this crapand raises your consciousness,

and you enter a state of healing.with me, darlings? and then, as bruce h. lipton saysin "the biology of belief", "perceptions changenot only behaviors, but also gene expression." bruce h. lipton, doctor in biology, sorry, in neurology. please read it. “the biology of belief". he tells us how far genetics shows us

that our thoughts and our feelings change our gene expression. and he talks about the experimentwith identical twins who, after 50 years, have a completely differentgene expression even though they have the same genes. but what they've been through,the experiences of one were shitty, if you’ll pardon the expression, while the other wereexpansion of consciousness

and they were expressed in the genes. change your perceptions. change your consciousness. and it will be reflected in your bodybecause you have changed your mind. you will enter a state of inner peace. your mother, i’d say, is a wonderful mirrorfor you to learn to love through the respectthat you owe yourself. and the respect you owe to her.

and not the obligationof having to do things. what is reaching consciousness?i've already explained it, but anyway. what is reaching consciousness? what i’ve just explained. reaching consciousness is this. your experiences are not casual. you’re not sick in the head. you can do illogical,irrational things, you are processing informationin order to transcend it.

therefore,when someone has a genetic inheritance or an inheritance called,let’s say, "epigenetic", they have an opportunity. we always have an opportunityand the opportunity is always to act like a victim or decide to learn. always. and this point, this moment,is when we are creators of our lives. we decide the next moment. we will be victimsfrom a level of consciousness

and from the belief in duality: that it is the otherwho makes me unhappy, the other who has cheated on me,the other who has stolen from me, the other who has betrayed me,and the other, the other, the other... don't talk about the other. and if you find it hard,as david r. hawkins would say, "talk in the third person." project a screen,put yourself and the other in it, and ask yourself,

“hey you,why are you putting up with all this?" in the third person. she. do you follow me? and i assure youthat you’ll laugh for a while. actually, at the institute,we’ve developed module six; it's taken six yearsto get module 6 out. six years. for the first time, the student who comes to the modulewon't have a tutor or a mirror.

they will be the consultant,they will be the specialist. so let's see how you get on. and it’s tough, you can't imagine. try it yourselves.get a mirror. and look at yourself in the mirror.the mirror’s tough, i’m telling you. and you say to it,"hey you, why put up with this?" and when you start talking nonsenseand justifying yourself, the mirror will make you feel ashamed. but you're the one in the mirror.

try it; try it, you’ll see. should i quit my job or not. should i leave my wife or not. am i still the victim or not. you’ll see. but before you do anything,first of all, before you make a decisionon your life, reach consciousness. and when you reach consciousness,

when you decidewhat you have to decide, do it with inner peace. never with resentment. always with gratitude,even though you've been violated, even though you've been betrayed,even though you've been stolen from, because that is an experiencethat your soul has to experience. in the universe there is no error. or remain the victim. do what you want.

well, when we reach consciousness we don't have to do anything,everything happens spontaneously. everything, everything. people come and go. that person who did whatever, gone. i remember one girl who told me, "i don't dare tellmy husband that i want a separation because he’ll hit me and all that." "no,let’s change our perception."

this person is as afraid as you are. he has the same programme as you.and i show her. and give thanks for having had him.because you’re here thanks to him and you’re understandingand forgiving yourself. and she goes homeand her husband says, “you know what, love?we're getting divorced.” and she says to me,“get enric! wow!" enric has done nothing, he's just helped you changeyour perception,

but the person who has to changeit is you. not me. here’s a question.an example. "since i found worki've not had a partner." it’s not a joke; it’s a real visit. "i always work; always, and when i find a partneri lose my job. the relationship ends,i find work again. and i work, right?and work.

i find a boyfriend againand i lose my job again. and she says to me, "as i've seen your videos,i thought ‘i'll ask enric, it's interesting’.” she said this came from her tree,it took five minutes. this is from your tree. “i bet all the womenin the clan worked their butts off. and the men just sat aroundtwiddling their thumbs.” she says, "isn't that the truth."

"of course, and you fix it.what are your boyfriends like?" she says,"well, they earn a lot of money." "of course,so you don't have to work. that's called going for gold. don't take offence. the universe has solved it for youin the best possible way.” all the women working,the men doing absolutely nothing. no one worked. but all the women in the whole clan.

she takes all the information. she is the saviour of the group. she also works and works. she meets a guy, bam,she doesn't work. she loses her job or they fire her. "what bad luck,and i just love to work.” work, work, work. the relationship ends and she says,"hmmm..." “and what about those guysyou met? money?"

“big money, big money." "so you don't have to work.” "i'd get mad because i'd think, ‘oh the shame! i’m not independent, i'm not independentbecause i don't work.'" i say, "don't be an idiot." you are independentbut with a cause, silly.” “wow!” it’s true.

we spent ten minutes. as she left, she said,"great, i'm off." "right you are, love." "why wouldn't you go feeling good,if everything's great. it’s all great.” a guy says, "whenever i havea date i get rhinitis.” "really? tell me about that." "whenever i have a date,the next day, i get rhinitis." "this is about bonking.

"rhinitis is a sexual issue." why sexual? the nose? what do animals do when they seeeach other? they don't smell theirbutts to see if they've had a shit, they’re smelling the hormones. didn't you all know that?it's called atavistic information. atavistic information is informationpassed down from our ancestors, from when we were, during evolution,reptiles or pygmies, or whatever. but the information is there.

elephants give off hormones and elephants can smell 25kilometres away. because they have a big nose,you know. and they go off. and i said,"well, this is from your tree." "so that you...", i say. see how bioneuroemocion works,it’s fast when you have a quantum consciousnessor with a non-dualconsciousness. i say,"look, if every time you meet a girl

you get rhinitis the next day,the problem isn't with the girl. i imagine you change girls,right?" because he’s a flirt, it's normal. he's a heartbreaker,he's had them all. and i say,"yes, ok. i’ll explain why. there is a danger. the danger is- your unconscious warns you - if you stay with this girlsomething's going to happen. what could happen?she could cheat on you.

so she doesn't cheat on you,what should you do? not have a partner." and he says, "exactly." the mum of someone or otherwas having it off with the brother, so there was a big mess in that family and you couldn't trust anyone. and he took the information. careful with relationships,cheating happens. solution: don't have one.

or the girl who told me, "all the meni fall in love with are infertile.” "you don't have to have children.""i want to though..." right there. your unconscious information: no. "now decide, with this one you won'thave children; he's infertile." "i love my husband." “stay with your husbandand accept that you won't have kids. it's fine.”

now, this is a good one.it's from mexico. they didn't understandbioneuroemocion. i took this case, i put it hereand everybody understood: "when i got married, our familiesfell out and now they don't speak." the families of the bride and groom. i say, "this is family resonance. someone had to get marriedand didn't want to." “yes, my grandmother's mother",her grandmother, "they forced her to get married".

another one ran offwith her husband. "and your parents?""they adore each other." "and you?" "we love each other very muchbut our families have been separated." so, basically, what's the lesson? that the only thing that matters,the only family that exists, is the one we form. the one we form. and this is what you do.

this is why the love of two people is stronger than the opinionof their families. how many familieshave shit marriages because they listen to the motherof one or the other or the father of one or the other? don't put your hands up,there'd be too many raised hands. don't put them up, please. please don't. good, let's carry on.

when we understand,this is really important, we don't adopt positions. we free ourselves from victimhood,it's a summary of what i've explained, we don't adopt positions,we free ourselves from victimhood, and we reach what is known asemotional maturity. when we don't adopt positions, the solution appears as a consequenceof an absence of judgement. i swear to you by all that is sacred, that the moment you withdraw,the moment you stop taking positions,

the moment you stop taking sides,either side, the solution will come. because the cureis always integration. nature and chemistry teach us that an element cannot bein an ionic state. it has to be in a stateforming a substance. for example, chlorine and sodiumjoin to form salt. we have a polarity,our partner has another polarity, and if we get together it’s becausewe share the same information.

and we get together not to sufferthe information of our ancestors, but to transcend it,to give it another level of consciousness and becomesaviours of the world or healers of the world,which is the same thing. what i’m saying is that things are neither good nor bad,they are perfect. they are opportunities to transcendand raise our consciousness. i'm going to give yousome phrases from eminent scientific figures.

mr jon kabat-zinn,who's the father of mindfulness, says, "by increasing our consciousness, the changes in lifecome by themselves." this is why i always saythat we don't have to do anything. when people finish, they say "and now i've reached consciousnesshow many months will this take?" they haven't understood anything. they've understood nothing.

well, reset, let's start again... in other words, come back anotherday, you haven't understood a thing. reaching consciousnessis seeing things another way. in fact, "a course in miracles” saysthat the most holy place in existence is where there was once old hatred;today it has become new love. this understandingis a deep change in perception that my experience,no matter how painful, is goldif i am capable of transforming it. it is gold.

and this is what jon kabat-zinn says. another one. david r. hawkins,who’s no longer with us. "without a change of consciencethere is no real reduction in stress." doctor boukaram, a young oncologistand nuclear physics expert, tells us that everything resonates. "the communication of the cellsin our body is through resonance." if our cells communicateby resonance, we, as cells of a social system,resonate.

and dr. bruce rosenblum, "in the universe,everything is complemented." everything is complemented, always. in bioneuroemocion, we applythe hologram effect, which says that everything is in the partand the part is in the whole. so,when i am with someone, i have all the information. from a dual point of view, the first level of bioneuroemocionand biodecoding,

if you didn't give me datesor anything i wouldn't be able to see you. and i said to myself, "it has to be more simple.that's not it, that's not it." the person bears all the information. but to understand thisi had to think in a quantum way. so, when i have a person who, for whatever reason,knows nothing about their ancestors, i ask them a very simple question,

"tell me about your universe. tell me about everything around you. tell me about your partner,if you are married. tell me about the in-laws.tell me about your work. tell me about your vocation.tell me everything. because everything around youis a resonance of your ancestors. and you are seeing them." so, i want you to knowthat if you know nothing at all simply observewhat's in front of your nose.

but don't judge or adopt positions,don't be victims; comprehend that, before you,you have all the mirrors, in which you can see that part of you that you wouldn't seeif it wasn't for them. if someone doesn't respect you,ask why you don't respect yourself. if someone insults you,ask why you insult yourself. if someone steals from you,ask why you steal from yourself, and what you steal. maybe they steal money,but what you lose is time.

i don't know if you knowbut time is money. then we have kingsley l. dennis,sociologist, who talks about quantumconsciousness and says, "neuroscience, quantum biologyand quantum physics are now starting toconverge to reveal that our bodiesare not just biochemical systems, but sophisticatedquantum and resonant systems." and the key, the essence allowing usto make changes in our life,

is called "emotion". if there is no change in emotion,our unconscious receives nothing, our biology receives nothing. so even if you do something25 thousand times, if it's without emotional coherence,without an emotional change, there will be no changes in yourlife. if you want changes in your lifeyou have to change your emotions. and to change your emotionsthere is only one way: to change your perception.

if there is no change in perceptionthere is no emotional change. and what is self-indagation? it is conscious information where... i've done a little summaryof what i’ve explained. don't justify yourself. we humans are addictedto justifying ourselves. you can't imagine. somebodystarts talking about something, they're ten sentences in:nine and a half are justifications.

and you’ve got a hard job trying towork out what they want to tell you! the other is your mirror. and you know that what you likeor don't like is your shadow. this is very "jungian" but it's true. well, it’s also written. for me to be able to see sinin the other, i must have first seen it in myself. otherwise, i cannot see it. let's carry on.

talk to yourselfin the third person, as i said. you observe the scenario wherestress is happening without judging. you observe the repeated situations. there are lots of storiesthat repeat themselves. don't think you've got bad luck, they repeat themselvesso that you reach consciousness about something you can changeif you want. observe the excesses. a big emotional impactwith the slightest stress.

what do i mean by this? there are lots of subtletiesthat we don't pay attention to and they’re a real treasure. a misunderstanding, but you say,"whatever...” a fall, and you say,"whatever...” you bump into somebodywho does... "whatever...” someone who crosses your path,and you, "whatever...” all this is information. everything is information.

the man whose phone rang, who forgot whatever, well, there are lots of messages here. apart from the message,the message he carries. the universe has a whatsappthat works brilliantly. find your resonance in the family, find your resonance in the mirror,which is your partner. explore the emotional space,the most important of all. note, ladies.

do you know why i say ‘ladies’? because ladies are the only onesbearing the "da vinci code". do you know what that is? it’s made up of the uterusand the cervix. if you look at it, it's shapedlike a glass, isn't it? the sacred chalice. things don't happen by chance. listen to what i’m about to say. interestingly, i explained thisand my sister-in-law montse said,

"hey, read this book by nessa carey:‘the epigenetics revolution'." it says interesting things like, "when an egg meets a sperm, the sperm never meets the egg." we've been taught that the egg, sorry, the sperm,headbutts the wall of the egg membrane to break it. no, wait,i'm going to be more graphic. you can get all the sperm togetherto headbutt that membrane

but they'll never break it. it is the membrane of the eggthat opens and says, "come on in, handsome." "yes, you." but scienceis very macho... so there it is, breaking eggs. no, no, no, no. no, no, no. not even millions of spermcan break that membrane

because it is a huge fortress compared to the tiny headof the silly little sperm. so the membrane opens its doorsto the handsome prince. and for which does it open? to the one that resonates. it’s pure resonance. what i’m about to say is possibly the most sacred thingthat i will say in my life. take note:

women have the alchemicalprocess of transmutation, which is why i call itthe "da vinci code", paraphrasing that clever film. i’m not going to go into whetherjesus copulated with mary magdalene, i’m not bothered about that.he can do what he wants, he's jesus. that’s why he is who he is,he can do what he wants. i love the figure of jesus, ok? i don't know if he really existed,

but if he didn't i don't care, i like him a lot. nessa carey,in ‘the epigenetics revolution’, so we're talking science... says that when the eggallows the sperm to enter and they form the zygote,a reprogramming occurs. all the data of the sperm is erased and the information is leftas a blank page. and thenthe reprogramming takes place.

and so i have a question: what is the reason forthis reprogramming? if you have understood anything,and i hope you have, it will be directly dependent on the stateof consciousness of the mother. the mother carrying xx, which is information from the paternalline and information from the maternal line, decides which x is erased: either the paternal line informationor the maternal line information. and this is really important.

so,the resonance is so important, the woman's consciousnessis so important, before gestation, during gestation and in the first three monthsof gestation, that it determines the story of her child. this lady, or woman, or doctorconducted studies on the food shortage in hollandin the second world war and she found thatwhether or not these mothers went hungry or didn’t go hungryin the first three months...

if in the first three monthsthey were ok and then went hungry - i don't know if i've got thisthe right way round but anyway – those first three months determined, almost to a tee the child's story. and not only that: some could eat whatever they wantedand they didn't get fat, and the others got fat. so,we have a factor in obesity.

"what’s the emotional state?", i always ask the peoplewho come and see me. “tell me what you want,but more than anything else i want to know the emotional statein which you were conceived." oh, and if you ask your mother,she's going to lie. she'll lie. few mothers will say,“i didn't want you.” but i had a client who said to me, “i’m surethat my mother didn't want me,

but now i understand,i won't judge her." why?” because she had a set of circumstancesand this information, and that’s it. and she had some conditions,i can't remember which. "but i talked to my father.'i'm going to talk to my father'. and my father told me, 'look, daughter, i would never have marriedyour mother. what’s more,i don't love your mother,

but she got pregnant with youand as i’m the father, here i am'." the father had some balls,he told her straight. but the mother said,"oh, i got married very much in love." maybe she did. but this is really important, because when you know this informationyou can transform it. at least you don't pass it downto your children. do you get what i’m saying? when you change your consciousness,you change your information.

this is why a womanwho consciously gets pregnant can erase all the toxicitiesof the clans. it is the most sacred momentin nature, but how many childrencome into this world with motherswho were not conscious? don't raise your hands here either. nissa carey,‘the epigenetics revolution’. not everything she says is clear,but she explains this very well. so, observe.

but of course: “what bad luck i had,my mother was this and that..." reach consciousness. because when we reach consciousness, as bruce lipton says, "we can change our gene expression.” and this is what epigenetics shows us. if i deeply change my emotions, i change my reality.

external and internal. but most importantlyi don't do it to heal myself, but to expand my consciousness. and my healing will bea collateral asset, if it happens. as i explained,the major obstacle is communication. symbolic language is overused. symbolic languagewas a great development because, for example,if i say "chair" or "stool” everybody has an imageof a "stool", don't you?

otherwise, i'd have to say, “four wooden legs,about 60 centimetres high, and we'd construct it. but we’ve abused symbolic languageso much that we only speak symbolically. we say everything symbolically. we’re not descriptive, ok? when we are descriptive,which is what we ask of you... well, you can't even imagine wheni say to clients who come to see me,

"sorry,what you mean to say..." “well, my husband,my husband is boring." and they don't budge from there. "give me a scene, get descriptive." when we get to the description... "you call that being bored.right, i know what you mean." but before we get to that point...god almighty! it requires patience. for example, descriptive language.

"i repeatthe same pattern of partners." i answer, "that's like telling methat it rains in madrid." what are you saying? "i repeatthe same pattern of partners." and? "can you tell mewhat type of partner you repeat?" "we've grown apart." “money problems.” "i don't believe in god."

"i left him because he was boring". "the relationship was bad." uh oh! we hardly ever saygood and bad, ok? very rarely. good, bad. and what is a bad relationship?what is a good relationship? and no one understands anything. krishnamurti said, "all knowledge is corruption.all thought and concept are corrupt.

"we are their slaves." "a course in miracles" says, "the day that you undo concepts,you’ll see the truth." moreover, concepts and symbols prevent us from seeingthings as they really are. also, we are so used to it that i’m going to explainwhy we talk like this. because it's about beingsocially correct, but, more than anything,

we make sure that the otherdoesn’t know anything. that they don't know anything. above all. as i was saying,i'm going to honour william braud, the man who described the seed moment,which i've already talked about. he asked himself this question – remember what we've discussed: "is it possible to retroactivelyprevent a disease?

is it possibleto rewrite our own emotional reaction to an event? how much of the past can we changein the present real world?" note that this mantalks about a retrospective aspect. so he's sort of saying that if i can go back to a point in the past and change my perception of it,this would affect my present. good for william braud. one of our great skillsare interpersonal relations.

don’t look for teachers,sleep next to them as normal. don't go to india. do not go anywherelooking for teachers and gurus, sleep next to them. make your relationship yourtreasure. and to do this, avoid explanations,avoid justifications and avoid being right. you make me sick. you make yourself sick.

how should we apply bioneuroemocion? and now we've reached application. i don't know how much time we have...they've left me something here. what time is it? well this is the most important partso you'll have to wait. first, we choose a symptomor a difficult situation. it can be anything. for example,i've been penniless three times. migraines, angina,

the men i meet won't commit. that lady that told me,"i've been penniless three times." she told me about the three timesand the specialist says, "it’s like a heist." and i ask her very quickly,"where’s your son?" "my son’s in prisonbecause he was a robber." all the men in this lady's clanhad stolen from her. all the men in the clan stole. and her son ends up a robber.

she says, "he was..." "oh, but my son got mixed upwith the wrong sort." well, that's how mothers are. "he got mixed up with the wrongsort. he didn’t organise the heist." but he was there, wasn't he? another example:“i can't find a boyfriend.” “have you ever had a boyfriend?”"yes." “so your motive is incorrect.” no, no, it's true.

when i’m told,“i can't find a boyfriend” i ask... - because i’m like this - i say, “have you ever had a boyfriend?” "yes."“so your motive is incorrect.” let's move on. true story. “all my relationships turn out bad.” “i don't know what you mean.” "there’s no trust.""i still don't understand.”

you're with me, right? "whenever i am in a relationshipi get obsessed." it lasted longer,i've summarised it. "i don't understand anything,you need to be descriptive, if you keep being subjectivewe'll get nowhere." “the problem is that i don’t acceptthat my partner loves me." "i want objective things.refutable facts." for example,my husband doesn't smack my bum. and it goes on,“i have a sexual problem.”

"go on..." "all the partners i have end upcheating on me with someone else." ok, that i do get. thirty minutes to get to this point. don't laugh, please. they all do the same. if i’ve seen a thousand people,then a thousand! conclusion: we human beingshave a serious problem. we talk a lot and say nothing.

identify the situation of stress. the person has to describe,objectively, a highly stressful scenein relation to their visit, ok? let’s use the example, the same one. "describe a situation where you think your partneris cheating on you." she says, "okay, i’ve got one." "how old were you when it happened?""29." "were you living together?”"yes."

"how long were you living together?""5 years." "where?""at home, with my partner." “what happened?” "well, i find outhe's in this online relationship.” “describe the situation to me", i say. “i come home to find himlooking at something like porn. but in fact it was someonehe saw a lot.” so the guy's got this lover,but they have it off on the internet.

they had sexual relationsover the internet. ok. ok. so we have the full situation. good, we've made progressin three quarters of an hour the unconscious does not distinguishbetween real and symbolic. if somebody livesa situation as a cheat, for the unconscious, it is cheating. let’s find the resonance. resonance is:

i want another situationfor you to live this situation. there must be a similar resonance, i explained it earlier. we have to look for repetitions,similar situations to the last one. we’ll use the same example. "have you had other relationships?" "i’m with someone else now." so this ladyhas gone back to her past and come back to the present stage.

it can be done, it doesn't matter. ok."what's up with this one?" "i don’t enjoy the sex."here we go. "what? is he cheating on you too?",i ask. as i already know, i say,“is he cheating on you too?", "yes, he's havinga parallel relationship with his ex." "so he's with both of you." "well, there's no sex,but it’s a parallel relationship." “so what does he do?”

"he rings her every day." "and you see that as cheating.""yes." for the unconscious, having sexover the internet, talking to one's ex... for the unconscious, they’re with someone else. the unconscious does not judgewhether they're having sex or not. so let's carry on with the example. we've found a common factor.which? the cheating is from a distance.

"i know what your belief is." "you have a programme of not havingphysical sexual relations." seeing the partner, i say this. "tell me about your mother." this is what i’ve been saying. "i cheat myself through the other. in fact,i am the one who doesn't want sex." for a person to live outa type of experiences, they must resonatewith their family history.

in other words, somebody who's livedthrough similar situations to them. similar. so i ask, "where does this experience take youin your family? women who don’t want to have sex?" "my mother was alwaysdisgusted by sex and she's always told me so." so this young lady was conceived with disgust.

you’ve already understood what i was saying before.so she has sexual desire but doesn't have sex with her partners. but her partners don'thave sex directly with other women; they have distance relationships. do you see this or not? the unconsciousalways gives you the solution. we must learn to see. "for your mother to be disgusted

by sex, she must have hadsome sort of bad experience." "well, her relationship withmy granddad was very strained." i'm going to explain it.it wasn't strained, no. he raped her every night. and he made her perform thesexual practices of a prostitute. so,the mother of this lady was conceived from a total rejection of sex. do you see how it works? why do we inherit informationrelated to situations of stress?

to transcend it, of course. this young lady can nowtranscend this information. she can now understand her partners. and she can decide whethershe wants to carry on living like this or if she wants to start livinganother way. all clear? but without guilt. the goalwe seek with bioneuroemocion is to get peopleout of victimhood.

i’m going to give some more examplesto make it clear, and with this we're done. a woman who developsa phobia to water when her child turns six. i’ll run through it quickly. and i ask, "a phobia to waterwhen your child turned six?" well, i ask, "what happened when you were six?"

"i had this great friend, a friendwho was born on the same day as me. and we always played together,we played together. and one day, when i was six yearsold, i got angry with him. i scolded him. and he went off crying,he went off crying.” remember that please, remember this moment of stress. there is a lot of affection. she scolds him,he starts to cry and goes off.

and they can't find him. and they search and search and they find him drowned. when she has a six-year-old sonwho she loves very much, very much... so you understand thatthe unconscious does not differentiate between a friend i love very muchand a son i love very much... if i have a phobia of water,what am i going to avoid? him drowning. how's that?

astonishing, isnâ´t it? and there are hundreds like this. a woman with breast cancer. the stress for her is that herhusband loses his job. it takes us a long timeto get to this point, because a person with cancer is a person who, while others livein lala land, people with cancer livein the upstairs flat of lala land so, she kept saying,

"everything started whenmy husband lost his job." "well, i can understand that your husband losing his jobcan cause stress. but for you to have breast cancerthere must be something else." and i couldn’t budge her from here. i couldn’t budge her,but in the end she told me, "when he worked,he spent all week away. and now he's not working,i've got him at home all day." “good.okay, the stress has increased.

but there’s something elseyou're not telling me. something else, there’s a stress." and then she says to me, "he's got problems with alcohol and now he's drunk around the houseevery day." you see? that was the stress. when he was far away,she ignored it and said nothing. it took a lot to get this out ofher!

a woman comes for a visit because, listen to this, she gets very nervousabout feeding the cat in the morning. simple as that. this girl, who’s a teacher, said, "heck! with bioneuroemocionyou can be seen for anything." just so you seethat we can get something out of the most insignificant little thing. i'm going to go quickly now. she's asked...to get here, he says,

"so why don't you putthe food out at night?” "i get up in the morningand i want a cup of tea and feel the sun on my face,and there's the cat 'meow, meow'." and i’m like, "damn, he wants food." and she gets furious.she doesn't understand it. are you following? it's like... i say,"put the cat's food out at night." "nobecause then the dog eats it."

and the specialist says, "you have a dog and a cat?""yes." "and from what i can see,they're not together, right?" "no, the dog is insideand the cat's outside." so then, the specialist, who's very good– and it’s not me, just so you seethat we have good people – says to her,"tell me about your mother." and why does he say,"tell me about your mother"?

think. just lookat what the unconscious does... she's giving food. who archetypically feeds? the mother. so, for the unconscious,she is the cat’s mother. and she gets very nervousabout feeding the cat but not the dog. so he says,"tell me about your mother." she confesses – i'm going quickly –

"my sister and i hate each other. she’s bulimicand the whole family waits on her. i feel like an outsider." she’s the cat, the sister is the dog. when the unconscious sees the catit gets nervous. the unconscious does not distinguishbetween real and virtual. it’s all resonance.everything is information, right? and when she reaches consciousness,she says, "poor cat". i’ll feed him in the morning now.she changes her consciousness.

she won't get mad with the cat now. when she sees the cat,which will do the same “meow, meow” in the morning,she will feed it and say, "here you go kitty,you also deserve to eat." but who is she feeding?herself. because she's reached consciousnessthat she was resentful towards her mother because she didn't feelshe was loved like the sister, ok? everything dawned on her suddenly,one after the other. this is called reaching consciousness,entering a period of peace;

this is called healing. jung. “those who do not learn anything from the unpleasant thingsin their lives force the cosmic consciousness to reproduce themas many times as necessary to learn what is being taughtby the drama of what has happened. what you resist persists,what you accept transforms you." carl gustav jung.

and we say, "when one achieves fullconsciousness it’s time for action." thank you very much. thank you. thanks.